After a year I finally told him that I like me. I did tell him that I need to be left alone for a while cause Im not sure if our relationship is just based on lust or something more. I don't want 2 get physical and I want to take things slow. Its been 4 days since I spoke to him, he dropped me an email saying this...
"Thats the most honest u've been with me.....U did take your time....I guess u were waiting to see all this while if I really like u or not !....silly I told u early on...I find u very attractive....I miss our moments of togetherness.....pleasant memories...
Still I like your discipline...u r probably doing the right thing....if we meet, it would be impossible for me not to want to hold u....and just sink in the warmth of your embrace....though still some part of me desires u physically....I can't lie about that...or help it. but I do understand what you are saying any way I miss you alot." Is just Lust or does he really love me?
2007-03-08 22:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he really loves you because there's very litte sexual comments in his e-mail. And if you've waited a whole year to tell him then there must be something more to it than just lust
2007-03-08 22:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is a part of any loving relationship. I would say if he does not love you now he is heading that way. How do you feel about him now that you haven't seen him for a few days? Do you miss talking with him? Do you miss just being around him? If you are answering yes then you are on your way to loving him. I think you should call him and get back together soon. It sounds like you have a very promising relationship and you need time to develop it further.
2007-03-09 06:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say he is being a comple *** , but the truth is , he is telling the truth .. you should resond , because this is a rare thing men do , he does miss you , he does have feelings for you , and he does miss you a lot , if he didnt would he even bother to let you know?
2007-03-09 06:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u talking now about internet love? o, boy, go see him first, maybe u will run as fast as u can. he sounds very very lame to me. and u check whether a man loves u or not according to his actions, not according to his words. if he is willing to make sacrifices for u, if he is willing to die for u - that means he loves u. if he says he desires u physically - isn't it obvious that he just wants to u know what?
2007-03-09 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋