I posted an ask a few days ago about my ex. She ended things 1 mth ago & I had avoided contacting her to give her space. She txted me a few days ago on the basis she owed me some money & asked if she should call to discuss. I said not to worry about the money. She then said she had a dvd of mine and could bring it round. I suggested to her we chat at some point. We spoke and agreed to meet for a drink.
I wasn't sure how to approach the drink but decided to be quite casual. I got the firm impression she wanted to see me but wasn't sure why.
The drink went well. At first things didn't seem positive, arms crossed etc After a while she opened up and we talked and laughed away.
As I was taking things slowly I ended the meet probably earlier than I would have liked. We went our ways, both said it was nice to see the other & said "see you again soon". She looked sad when we went our separate ways.
What should I read into this? She seemed quite positive but we didn't chat about us
2007-03-08 22:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by hantsguy1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she is still in love with you.
Go slowly, if u still like her.
Give time 2 each other, so u want to the some mistakes again.
I really hope all the best, and good luck.
2007-03-08 22:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, it sets a bad precedence to go back to an ex. It really depends on why you both split up in the first place - if you or her slept around I would say definitely don't go back, but if you split up because of say one of you travelling, then why not.
The crucial thing is communication - you won't know fully until you talk to her.
2007-03-08 22:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Alex N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though maybe she still wants to be friends or something. It's difficult, but try and take things day-by-day cos the moment you start getting your hopes up - you may find yourself being disappointed. I suggest you be happy that things are still fairly amicable at the moment and see how things go.
2007-03-08 22:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by rachel e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dunno. Why did you break up in the first place? I guess she might have wanted to see you to make sure she had done the right thing. Women are usually fairly obvious I think...if she didn't want to see you wouldn't have created several reasons to get together. Maybe you could text her...you've got nothing to lose really...either shes up for it or not and if not then...move along!
2007-03-08 22:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both bond to have feelins for each other, jus go slowly and see how things progress. dont rush into anythin tho remember things ended for a reason! so you dont want to repeat what happened before. good luk
2007-03-08 23:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by baby_gal_lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋