iam a 17 year old guy i found this 12 year old girl. until we fell in love for each other and now she is my girlfriend. but iam relly insecure. will this girl just leave me??? does she really love me?? i really do love her and i dont want to leave her.. her dad is very angry about this but her mom is not.. what should i do??? pls help me!!
2007-03-08 22:06:50 · 12 answers · asked by MiKe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are way to old for this girl. She is not even a teen yet. What are you thinking? She is not going to love you forever. She is going to get older and go to high school and she will meet many new guys. Coarse this won't happen for a couple of years as she is only in 6th grade now. Her father is going to get you arrested for statutory rape and you are going to go to prison and become a registered sex offender. You need to break up with her immediately and be sure to not see her again until she is 17 or 18. Try for a girl closer to your own age.
2007-03-08 22:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, whether or not you want to tell either of your parents, you have to. There is no way she can go and get an abortion, if she wanted to, without an adult present considering she's underage. There is no way that her parents aren't just going to notice. You have to go to the doctor and if she does it will go under her parents' insurance, which will raise flags. Think of all the things that could go wrong. I know you guys want to keep it most likely, but you are better off adopting it out or the other alternative. The way the world is going right now you'll be lucky if you aren't homeless soon yourself. I'm sure you are aware of the great depression, well what is going on now is much worse and trust me, she doesn't want to be pregnant and out on the streets. Any stress she has now while she's pregnant will go to the baby and cause the baby to end up having high blood pressure throughout it's life. Anything that happens while the baby is in the womb will effect it once it comes out. The womb is the first environment where a baby starts to learn how the world works. If the baby is born with a disability are you ready to take care of it? Many adults will abandon a child that as a disability. I will tell you now that you are better off going to school and getting a great education. You have to either give up the baby or the other alternative. If you talk to your parents and tell them that that is your plan you are more likely to have an easier time dealing with them. Good luck and sorry for the lecture, but I figured it's something I would tell adults that are just popping out babies as well. EDIT: A girl can have a baby at that age. The youngest mother on record was 7 or 9 I believe. Her uncle raped her and she got pregnant. Kids mature faster nowadays. There are girls having periods in kindergarten and developing breasts.
2016-03-17 02:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um at 12? thats not a very good age there. 5 years may not be so strange for someone 20 and someone 25 but those 5 years are real important at that age date someone your own age ...thats just ... actually wrong and in another year illegal. Why you so insecure? I'm sure you can do a lot better than someone so young. Thats probably the reason your with a girl so young in the first place. If I was her dad I would have choke slamed you from day one.
2007-03-08 22:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember when you were 12? Do you /really/ think you could seriously love someone at that age?
Also. You're 17, she's 12. That's wrong. You know it's wrong. Grow up and find someone closer to your age.
2007-03-08 22:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by nope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a 17 year old 'in love' with a child and you are seriously worrying that she will leave you? All the more reason for her not to be with you! You scare me already. If I were her parents I would have you out of her life ASAP!
2007-03-08 22:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by RD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, you are both too young for love, it might be your first love, as you grow older you will meet other girls and and you will fall inlove again and again. I mean 12 years old doesnt know really what is love. I dont mean forget her, grow her, but dont rush her.
2007-03-08 22:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by mathandashukela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 shouldn't even be dating. youre 17 and shes only 12
2007-03-10 11:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not love you forever, but that large, hairy guy called Bubba, who's going to make you his b1tch in prison sure is gonna!
2007-03-08 22:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
brother gd luck bt hey that gal is too young i mean you make me drop to apoint like this one
even he private parts are too small that you are just goin' to tear them wats wrong with this world forgive me bt get real just get lost other wise you goin to jail soon and there you even meet sexual partners even alot more old and rough too
2007-03-08 22:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by nukeville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sick and twisted stay away from her she is only a child and dose not know her own mind you are a weird dude if i were her dad id be after you with a shot gun
2007-03-08 22:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋