I live with a guy I know I loved but not sure now. I have left several times. He is controlling, I have to tell him where I am at all times, can't see my friends, he drinks all the time, we never go anywhere together, My ex calls me and wants me back and he would do anything in the world for me, I have left my boyfriend a couple of times now and when I did, my ex went out and bought me a truck to drive. I am not in love with my ex but he is the type that would take care of me and let me do anything I want where the one I got, I just have no life! What in the world do I do, cause I can't afford to get out on my own!!!!
2007-03-08 22:04:06 · 21 answers · asked by Gayle G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to try and move in with family or friends. You need to get out of your abusive relationship with your drunken boyfreind. You need to let your ex know that you do not love him and stop using him. You need to get a fresh start. It might even be nice if you could move in with family or friends that live in another town. Get a job, save up some money, and move out on your own or move in with some girls. Wait until you're married before you move in with another man.
2007-03-16 18:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your ex is trying to be a friend bc he cares for you firsatly and help you and the truck is to give you some independence to get away from the controller and get a job etc. Talk to the ex and see if he can also maybe help you find a job.
It seems at least you have some sort of friend in the ex...
you are not a golddigger, only if you take full advantage of the situation and dont do anything to help yourself.
answer #5 and others are right on also..family should help in any way they can for now...
Get single and stay single and get to know yourself and feel the power in independence...
you have a lot of moral support on here..
go for it and good luck
2007-03-16 22:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a woman beater girl! U don't need that ****. It's easier said than done. Blah Blah Blah... I have been abuised in all different aspects. And until you can love you. No one else will. And you'll continue to attract these kinds of people. No will wipe your *** like you. Look out for numero uno. Try to be strong. But leave your ex alone. If you don't love him. The way that he does you. It's nothing like having. Your emotioned ****** with.
2007-03-16 21:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by andelagdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to get rid of the live-in boyfriend it seem you are unhappy with him anyway move on your ex-b/f is trying to be there for you but do not use him you can afford to live on your own get a cheaper place to live and find a second job with this move you will learn to love and respect yourself more you don't have to settle for less when you deserve more..
2007-03-16 16:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by kyowa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fell for the bad boy, he sounds like a user, your mad to stay in this relationship and would prob be the first to advisor anyone else to get out of it. As for the other chap, sounds really nice, but not fair to use him how the other fella is using you. Be friends, take no gifts pay your own way, and see how you get along
2007-03-08 22:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by leigha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so why do you keep going back? your just fueling the fire hun! You are letting him have his cake and eat it to,plus you are destroying yourself! Listen happiness is not behind a $ sign,and if you are not happy with the current B/F,then its not healthy, you need to stop and find yourself and be happy with yourself,before anyone else can. You CAN do it by yourself theres ways you just don't want to,you will be miserable as long as you make it that way. I know its harsh sounding but I learned the hard way as well,NOW Iam glad I wised up,happier then ever!!
2007-03-16 20:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey GET OUT NOW not a day later.My dad was abusive to my mother and he had her under his thumb for almost 51 years.It was so sad to see my mother dying and never TRULY loved she gave him her all and he never would even give 10 %.I was 23 when she died but I learned from her and seeing everything I did and I am telling you he will not change.But in flip side don't go to the ex if you don't love him don't use him as an escape if you love him go for it but if not git your own means and GET OUT.FIND away to get out
2007-03-16 17:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by anntanner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain this to the ex. He sounds like a great guy and just might be willing to help you get out of your bad situation, whether you love him or not.
2007-03-16 22:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by kuntess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On ****, Leave the bad boy now. Because you are not prisoner. Then find the other you like and also can take care of you like your Ex. Come on, many guys is waiting for you.
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