is it bad for your girlfriend to buy you shirts and stuff and change your hair style? is it normal for girls to shop? or is she trying to change me?
2007-03-08 21:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no of course not, not if its a kind gesture. you should be more grateful your girlfriend thinks enough of you to go out n buy you gifts. you show no trust in your girlfriend!
2007-03-08 22:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hair style?... ya she's trying to change you. Especially if its clothes that you normally wouldn't wear unless she's trying to buy you more dressy clothes for like clubbing or something. You could totally play the same card on her and buy her some short skirts and a nice little leather colar..... if your going to play dressup make it fun at least hahaha
But more realistically speaking you should talk to her about the whole trying to change who you are. You can't let someone do that to you even if the sex is good... usually haha
But if you like the clothes she's buying then thats a good thing and women do that time to time. Maybe she just doesn't realize its something you normally wouldn't wear. My girl used to buy me hoodies and stuff and I never wore one til then and I ended up liking the new clothes anyway so it was all good.
2007-03-09 05:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It isn't a bad thing for your girlfriend to buy you clothes and other stuff. I do things like that for my man. I do it because I love him and want him to feel like he is worth a million. I don't expect anything in return. As far as your hair that should be your decision. Yes girls love to shop we were born to do almost nothing else. I don't think she is trying to change you. I think she just loves you and this is her way of showing you how much she really does care.
2007-03-09 05:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by pinksmallbubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's what they do. Women LOVE to shop for their men because they think they have a better sense of style than we do (which is often true!).
I generally don't have a problem with it but I retain final vetoe power. My wife sometimes will buy me clothes and usually she has good taste and can live with what she got for me. She knows me well enough to know what I absolutely will not wear (anything lavendar, way too gay of a color).
She just wants you to look good and a lot of the time, they really do have a better sense of style than we do, so just roll with it (to a large degree). Besides, it's makes them feel better about themselves. As long as she's not bragging about it all the time in front of others, who cares?
2007-03-09 06:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is showing you she cares. Buying you things she thinks you will like...to show you she is interested in you and your interests. If you don't like the suggested new hairstyle just tell her that! Girls love to shop...you're lucky shes shopping for you!
2007-03-09 05:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many girls like to shop for and makeover their boyfriends. If you like the clothing she buys for you, wear it. If not, just tell her or go with her to pick out things. Getting men to dress better is what women do....my husband can't even believe the crap he used to wear before we started dating. You just need to decide if the clothing thing really bothers you.
2007-03-09 05:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by J D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your mother we're talking about? Does she cut your food on your plate for you too?
2007-03-09 06:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its totally normal, because shes in love with you
2007-03-09 05:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what gf do! Also wives!!! Get used to it!
2007-03-09 05:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consider yourself lucky.
2007-03-09 05:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋