After a year I finally told him that I like me. I did tell him that I need to be left alone for a while cause Im not sure if our relationship is just based on lust or something more. I don't want get physical and I want to take things slow. Its been 4 days since I spoke to him, he dropped me an email saying this...
"Thats the most honest u've been with me.....U did take your time....I guess u were waiting to see all this while if I really like u or not !....silly I told u early on...I find u very attractive....I miss our moments of togetherness.....pleasant memories...
Still I like your discipline...u r probably doing the right thing....if we meet, it would be impossible for me not to want to hold u....and just sink in the warmth of your embrace....though still some part of me desires u physically....I can't lie about that...or help it. but I do understand what you are saying any way I miss you alot."
2007-03-08 21:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it just lust or is that he is falling in love me.
2007-03-08 21:47:17 · update #1
Dr.Mojo Im 31 years old not 21
2007-03-08 21:55:51 · update #2
It sounds to me that this guy has strong feelings for you and if he does wait on you then it is love and not just lust, if he goes you don't need him.
2007-03-08 21:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gayle G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You are a young girl of 21 years you knows him better than any one else on the earth, but after reading your question I feel that he very well loves you but it is just love with some lust .
Enjoy Life
2007-03-08 21:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some way it sounds to me that he really likes you but doesn't want to hurt you. In the other hand it sounds like lust. Hope you will find the appropriate answer to your question?
2007-03-08 21:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by blondi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him a try cause there's no gain without lost. as u go deeper wit him u will know how really he loves u, just love him like if u never done.
best of all lucks. Pre
2007-03-08 22:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he at least deserves a chance.. it seems that he is willing to go past his desires for you to make you happy and that is a rare quality... he may be lying but there really is only one way to find out.. i think you should give it a shot.. he is at least worth a try :)
and if he meant everything in that email.. your lucky :P
2007-03-08 21:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by curls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with lust if you accept it as lust.
If you try to make lust love you won't win...
If you like it, stay with him...if you don't...don't
2007-03-08 21:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Maggi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when the brain works too well the heart loses its energy and beauty.
there is no love without lust. its like saying fire without heat.
2007-03-08 21:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl , he LOVES you, remember, you cant always predict the future, so take a chance and love him too, he is soooo sweet.
2007-03-08 21:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On it's way toward love....maybe. Give it time.
2007-03-08 21:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you
2007-03-08 21:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Linda U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋