I've just realised (actually, have always known if I'm honest) that my 'partner' doesn't love me (he said it). What's the best revenge??
2007-03-08 21:18:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is, we have a daughter. And Re: loving him, I think that I do but I also think that's it's only because I know he doesn't love me. (How fecked up???)
2007-03-08 21:26:30 · update #1
If he really doesnt love you then you really cant do any thing that will hurt him!! In this situation i would say the best revenge would be to do noting and act like you dont care!! But if you really want to get to him i would cut his clothes up, run a key down the side of his car and get hold of as much money of his as you can and spend it!!!! x
2007-03-08 21:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you have some serious issues, especially if there is a child involved, revenge is not the answer. No mater what happens between you and your partner, going down the revenge road will inevitably have an effect on your child. Remember your child loves you both and does not want to see either one of you hurt. You need to talk with your partner, talk about how you feel how he makes you feel then go away and have a long hard think about your future. I hope this helps
2007-03-08 22:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what the best form of revenge is? To move on and make sure that you do well in life, so much better than when you were with this man who didn't really love you.
2007-03-08 21:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being happy and having a great life - the thing is it wont be the best revenge for him to see you in this way if you are faking it - no matter how good you are at faking - he will know - but the worst thing the best revenge is for a man to see you happy successful and moving on
2007-03-08 22:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by nina c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget revenge. Its huts you too in the long run. If its over, move on. Life is too short to wallow in hatefull emotion. My first wife burned the pictures of my dead father. I doubt if such negative energy did her any good either. Use that energy to move forward. You will be the better for it.
2007-03-08 21:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Boatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never good.
You don't need this sweaty!!!
You are much better than him.
What cams around goes around.
Don't worry, time will give you your revenge without u doing anything.
Spend same time by your self, and u will c that you will meat new and better people.
Love will came again.!!
Always cams!!!!
Don't change your self 4 him. Don't became a bad person, u don;t need this.!!
2007-03-08 21:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by iona 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just act like your over him. Once he sees your not interested and that your life dos'nt revolve around him he'll soon feel less important and this should knock his confirdence to. I think a good bit of revenge is to sleep with one of his friends and tell them all how rubbish he was in bed!
2007-03-08 21:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on (your daughter will understand one day) the best revenge is success, do something better than him or start something you couldn't do with him.
2007-03-08 21:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Skippy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...forget about revenge though..Just kick him to the kerb.
There is plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-03-08 22:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with one of his mates ha ha! a no u cant do tat if theres a child involved...best thing is leave it and move on if he doesnt love u.
2007-03-12 07:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by buttonsmcguinty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋