first date questions?

Question

Right ok my friend is going on her first date with a new bloke on saturday night,

any tips for her?

How should she act?
Dress?
Drink? ect she is realy shy so any tips will help her xxxx

Answer 1

Tell her to just be herself so that he will get to know the real her.

Answer 2

Ok, well I'll start with the dress... it depends on where they are going.... but if she doesn't know, semi-casual or semi formal.... dress or nice blouse with nice pants (just make sure it shows off her figure).

She should act like herself but tell her not to come off as needy. Be somewhat non-chalant. Keep it fun and light. She doesn't want to freak the guy out by being clingy. Smile. And remember to have fun.

If she decides to drink, tell her to limit herself to one or two. Depending if she drinks a lot. But she doesn't want to get all beligerant and act crazy. And some people get really emotional. So, drink but not too much.

I agree with the guy up top. Make sure to have some money just in case the guy is a perv. Keep a cell phone on her at all times. Could also be useful alibi. If she needs to duck out of the date, she can have you call her and say "sorry got to cut this short its an emergency!".

Answer 3

1st dates are soooo scary,but the best tip i think you should give her is to just try and relax and keep in mind that if it doesnt work out then its not the end of the world and there are plenty more men out there!!
Tell her to keep the convasation flowing by asking him lots of questions about him (men like talking about themselves) think of a few before hand!Dress in something she feels her most confident in and drink what ever she likes although maybe not a pint of larger or anything to challanging for the poor bloke!! Tell her good luck and just relax and have a fab time x

Answer 4

Yea first dates with a person are always so scary no matter wat.. so Heres everything you need to know to have an amazing time... and score date # 2

***The Perfect First Date

~Getting Ready

1. Crank up the tunes
I always listen to happy songs or ones that make me want to dance -- like stuff by fergie or gwen stefani. The beat of their music puts me in a good mood

2. Choose your outfit
I never wear brand-new clothes on a date. Im always way more comfortable in something cute that ive had for awhile than in something trendy i just bought. I dont have to worry about discovering an itchy tag or learning that my jeans stretch out halfway through the night. Im already stressed about the date, so it definitely helps to feel good in what im wearing.

3. Boost your ego
I probably look like a complete loser doing this, but i stand in front of the mirror and tell myself out loud that im hot. Confidence is a huge plus to guys, and when i feel good about myself, I look good too.

4. Stop Obsessing
After getting dressed, I read a magazine right up until the guy picks me up or till its time to go. That way i wont be so anxious, looking at the clock, like, every five seconds.

Always act flirty its such a turn on

~~~After the date

*Saying Goodnite

**Youre into him:
Let it show! Tell him "Tonight was really fun. We should go out again sometime." To instigate a kiss, give him a hug, then pull back slowly until youre face to face.

**Youre not into him:
A block from home, get out your keys and say "Thanks. See you at school." DOnt add "Ill call you soon" -- hell think ur interested, which isnt fair to him.

**Youre not sure:
You dont want to kiss him, but you dont want to totally blow him off. If he comes at you for a smooch, turn your head and give him the cheek! Then smile and say " We should hang out again sometime."

****Following Up!!

**Should you call him first?:
Yes! Most guys say theyd be relieved-- they get nervous too. Wait a day, then IM or text him about something from the date, like the name of the terrible movie you both love but cant remember at the time. That way he wont feel like your pressuring him into anything.

***What if he doesnt call you?:
If its been a week, he's either letting u down easy, or the timing is off (he might be hung up on an ex or distracted by basketball tryouts). Wait another week, then call him ONCE more before you write him off completely.

****What if he wont stop calling you?:
Being nice softens the blow, instead of ignoring him or pulling an "Im busy rite now" excuse, call back and say "You're so great, but i just dont feel sparks

I used to always wait for the guy to call first. But I've found that if i dont show a clear interest pretty soon after the date, he thinks I dont like him. When you go to long without any contact, it just gets ackward. So ill usually drop him a quick message the next day, telling him that there is some event or thing i want to do that week --- and ill ask if he wants to join me. Sometimes i have to make up an occasion, but it usually does the trick!

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*Much LOve* **God Bless**

Answer 5

If you want to ensure that your first date is a hit and leads to a second, then you may want to curb your topic of conversation and stay away from some issues that are sure to stir up the waters of debate. Religious and political topics are great for ending a relationship before it ever has a chance to begin.

Answer 6

First dates are difficult. She should dress in what she is comfortable in, not to please anyone else. Make sure that someone knows where she is going and with whom. Never let herself be alone with this man, unless she wants to be. Drink little and make sure she is in charge of herself at all times. Make sure she has her taxi fare home in her shoe and nothing of value in her handbag, incase she wants to skip out via an exit to the loo.

Answer 7

Be herself enjoy herself but stay sober, The last thing she wants to do is get drunk and then regret something that may happen.

Answer 8

just tell her to be her self,tell her not to drink to much as this will put any guy off on the first date...tell her to dress not to sexy as she wants his imagination to run wild but not dress like a school teacher........just tell her to enjoy her self and have a good time....

Answer 9

she should just be herself,
she should feel comfortable with what she wears
she doesn't want to drink to much where shes stupid but also a little drink to calm her nerves will be perfect
hope she has fun
xxx

Answer 10

Be herself