2007-03-08 21:00:05 · 30 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheating? no not at all. it can sometimes help to pass the time at a boring day in the office!!
2007-03-08 21:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by elsie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to look at it like this...
What if you found out your bf or gf was doing that same thing. How would you feel? To me, it is not cheating but it is the same as flirting. It is a step in the wrong direction if you want the relationship you are in to grow. When you start talking to someone else (like sexy emails) you start things that can lead to something bad. Even if not with that person... it gets you thinking that you can expand your idea of what is OK. Eventually your view of what is acceptable will include things it does not right now.
If you are doing this, it might have started innocently or not really fully realizing the harm it could cause. So, if you want my advice, I think it is a bad idea and if you are doing this, I think you should stop before you cause irreversible damage to your relationship.
2007-03-08 21:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a bunch of prudes. If these people think emailing is cheating...good lord~ what do they think of instant messaging?
I try not to chat with anyone who is close by. I don't want to run into that person and feel like an idiot.
I've made lots of friends on Yahoo. Some want to talk a little flirty...some just want to be friends. Either way...it makes me happy, and my husband knows all about it. Been married for 6 days now. Yay!!
2007-03-09 02:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying to and betraying your partner? Yes,I see it as cheating. It starts off with sexy emails-then you decide a little text fun would be okay...next thing you know,you think,'Meeting up just the once won't hurt!' It's a downward spiral. And if your partner finds out about about these sexy emails (these things do come out in the end) they will question you and your every move as you will have shattered their trust in you. Sound good to you?
2007-03-08 21:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Why would you wish to share intimate time with strangers anyway? Since ur in relationship - rather send him/her naughty mail during day and get him/her ready for a passionate evening. Works much better and you don't have any guilt - just good fun with the one you chose as special to you.
2007-03-08 23:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bear in Africa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would see it as cheating.. but it could also be a warning sign saying that you arent completely content with your partner. Dig a little deeper to find your reason for doing it in the first place
2007-03-08 21:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nick C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to answer yourself that question is with a question. If your significant other was doing that would you feel cheated?
2007-03-08 21:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people see cheating in different ways i would say no but at the same time doing this can really upset your partner
2007-03-08 21:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are married or in a relationship! How would you feel if you found out your partner was doing this? Got your answer.
2007-03-08 21:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by ELIZABETH M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not really --- not if you never intend on meeting that person -- its just a harmless bit of fun!!!Mind you i sopose i wouldnt be very happy if i found out my bloke was doing it so im not sure!!! i sopose just make sure he doesnt find out!! x
2007-03-08 21:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋