Where are the best places/activites etc for a 17 year old girl to meet guys??
2007-03-08 20:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say starting with school is a safe, easy, and convenient place to start.
I am not going to say, you should enjoy being single, or any of all that, but i will say that when you are not trying to meet people, thats when you end up meeting some of the most interesting people.
if you think back to some of your best friends, you probably didnt meet them that day you went out to make friends (do you know what i am getting at?) you probably met them doing stuff you had to anywyas (class maybe) and under circumstances where you were there for other reasons.( like if you wanted to get in shape and joined a workout class at the gym, and then just so happened to meet someone there)
also, when you ask people how they met their sweetie, they dont usually say when i was out looking for one. they usually have a funny story, or its very simple like, oh we met from basketball, or whatever whatever.
so what im getting to, is that its not so much where you are and what youre doing (although it is to a slight degree)
what im saying is, if you concentrate on trying new things you like, or doing things for yourself that you enjoy, thats the time you meet the people you keep as friends or fall in love with. its more like, if you do something for the sake of doing it, not just to meet someone, more than likely, youll go to this activity, have a good time, and then just so happen to meet someone who likes the same things you do. then you dont waste your time meeting random guys. you have a better chance of meeting the guys that like to do what you do, and that are more like you than some random person would.
so, just find something you want to try, or that you want to do, and youll probably end up meeting the kind of people youre looking for, and you wont waste time with random people
i know im going on and on but hopefully it made sense. sorry if it yields no results.
good luck and be safe :)
2007-03-08 21:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by superval13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why you are asking this. No matter where you are or what you are doing 75% of every man that passes you has just judged weather he'd date you, have sex with you, or not even think of your existance. All you have to do is know how to look for them. If you want to meet a guy, just seperate him from his friends and ask for his number, done, he'll give it to you, you can call him if you like. If you want to meet a guy, the best place to find one would be, a grocery store (without his parents), Working, or anything else that show's his independance and dependibility. Mall is bad, internet is bad, skate park, or anything recreational can be very bad.
2007-03-08 20:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make friends with the girls in dorm , after that u will be able to go out to parties am sure there will be prentty of guys . But also out side the campus there will be guys n am sure they will talk to u . All u have to do is to keep a smile on your face when u see a guy looking at u . Smile it always wins everything
2016-03-29 00:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the best quality a good church home is a great start. You will meet guys who are on their good behavior. Get involved in youth classes and activities.
2007-03-08 20:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are not that important at your age, you are more than likely not going to marry or be close to anyone this young, go out with your friends, have fun enjoy your life, and at the right moment and the right "place" you will meet a great one, dont go looking the ones that you find when your out looking are sleeze balls
2007-03-08 20:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Evey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gym :) most guys are there....
Also.... basketball court? I reckon you should do some outdoor activities such as put on some track pants and go for a jog and yea... chat up a fella when you see one
2007-03-08 20:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no you could meet them anywhere, if you go watch a football match there is over 22 boys you could have. but if you wanna meet me off the internet then fine. bless.
2007-03-08 20:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School. period. Especially if he's in your class..therefore you have something to break the ice with. I know people that try tha myspace thing but beware of sheep in wolves clothing.
2007-03-08 20:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Handsome Black guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aside from school where most u meet in same age as yours, go to malls and/or restaurants
2007-03-08 20:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a group, go to church groups, be a volunteer, hang out in music stores
2007-03-08 20:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋