were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else.
2007-03-08 20:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by d p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just told me the other day, that this guy is after her, and that she doesnt know what to do, and she was wondering what i thought???......im hurting inside, but dont know if i should go for it or not??? she said it was an ex of hers who wants to try again. Also, i asked her for lunch once, and she never replied, then the same day she spoke to me later on, and acted as if nothing had happened, playing dumb of course, and didnt even mention me asking her for lunch via txt.
2007-03-08 20:30:31 · update #1
Damn. Isn't that obvious? She more than likes you! She's definately hopelessly devoted to you~! Reminds me of Olivia Newton John, woah! Grab this opportunity or you're a moron.
2007-03-08 20:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by donniedragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well it's obvious she's after something. Problem is figuring out what. Play detective a little, but play it safe. Ask her the next time she is laying down, (in private) and not hyper, who she likes. If she says anyone but you, say I guess i am not good enough" and check her response. If it seems that she is not taking the hint, it's probably not a relationship she wants. Next, if she's laying down for that breif moment, put your hand on her waist, if she does it again, move around to her stomach, if she does it again slide your pinky finger into her pants, DONT DIG, if you hit hair/stubble, your going to far, keep it their a bit, if she has not stopped you by then, you can play coy and act like your trying to undo her pants (dont actually do it) and wait for her to say "what are you doing", tell her your trying to remove her clothes but you can't figure it out, most likely if you've made it this far without a slap on the hand, she'll take em off for you. Last if she's not interested in a relationship, or sex, then she's just lonely. And running from something. Keep her close and keep her safe, but also dont get to attached or you might find yourself on Jerry Springer.
2007-03-08 20:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi b p,
since ur both 17 ur are confused about love. that was why i advise each time that get mature enough and then start loving. under aged minds are always feeble. any way u try to contact her, make her understand what u feel about her. give her a letter. still she is not responding then forget and forgive her. try another venture. enjoy the life!
2007-03-08 20:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she likes you, the whole sleep for a minute i pull that move, its because she wants your attention, she wants you to "wake her up" or care that she is inactive, heck maybe kiss her next time she does it, that would be a dream come true for me with that stunt, or you could straight up ask her, wait to long and you could be right and lose her to someone else, make waves and a splash will happen
2007-03-08 20:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Evey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man ARE YOU SLOW she wants you to ask her out why else would she tell you about all the guys after her. she is trying to make you jealous which is working. Just ask her out officially on a date
2007-03-08 20:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you - a lot. Whatever that she is doing only shows how much she is yearning for your attention and affirmation. Go for it.
2007-03-08 20:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you bad kind .she likes you but is proberbly too shy to tell you .she likes flirting with you .my opinion is to tell her you like her and if it does not work out ,you willknow she was not the one for you
2007-03-08 20:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes_cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you. tell her that you love her. simple
2007-03-08 20:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋