what should i do if my gf parents didn't like me?

Question

i love my gf so much but her parents is againts to me. i did my best to court her parents but it is useless.

Answer 1

perhaps you're being too much of a suck up to them.. cause the more you are a lot of the time equals the more they worry about their daughter dating you.

Answer 2

Obviously if your courting, your of a diffrent culture than mine. But my advice should help all the same. Find out what her parents dislike about you. Ask her father directly if possible. "Mr. (name) I apologize for being abrupt, but i was wondering if their was anything i could do to lessen the tension between me and your family." If that question doesn't soften him up, he'l most likely give you an answer in a day or so. (if he answers right away he REALLY does not like you, and you should heed his words carefully) Other than that, it could be discrimination, IE your parent's/family, what you do for a living, or if they beleive that you are only trying to defile their family. Good luck, but being a bit forward can solve this delima.

Answer 3

did you anything in particular to make them not like you? like what that gentleman said above about showing them your butt. If gf parents dont like you I guess that would be their personal choice. But there is something EVERONE likes or admires in another person, and that is DIRECTNESS. If you have the balls for it, speak with gf's parent (I suggest the mum) about gf and what THEY expect from their little girl and things of that nature. This'll make them feel that you genuinely care about their daughter and are interested in a lot more than her bod (even if aren't)

Answer 4

Of course, first impressions are important especially meeting her parents for the first time and I think you should not depair at this point. You may still have a chance to prove yourself and maybe later they will accept you. Remember you must give them time to see your inner strength, personality, family background etc.

Answer 5

If y ou make their daughter happy, if you take care of each other, respect her ......her parents see this and will see that you are a good person .

As a parent myself, it will be my son's choice of who he falls in love with and ultimately marries. It is my role as a parent to show him or teach or guide him as to what love is and what finding the one you will love as partner in life for all your life.

Answer 6

I dated a guy whose dad hated me for no reason so I was always nice to him, greeted him even though there was no responses. I was more adult than him and I was always sincere. That is what you should do. Maintain the level of respect you have for them, if youre respectful all the time then they have nothing to pin on you.

Answer 7

You don't have to date her parents as long as she digs you then you are in the clear. On the flip side of that coin if you knock her up they will have no choice but to like you.

Answer 8

if you were rude to them or said something wrong or have or are doing something wrong to your girl then change it but if you haven't done anything then sometimes parents are just hard to warm up to. just keep being nice and eventually they should warm up to you. after a long while if they still don't then I would have a small light conversation with them

Answer 9

mmm.... dress conservatively and try to strike up some interesting questions. Apart from that.... mmm.... be polite and maintain your manners around them.

Once they're out of the picture :) hehe... you're free to do whatever

Answer 10

All depends on your gf. It is she who has to convince her parents. If she could not - quit.