GUYS help me please,?

Question

I have been with my partner for about 9 months, I get the feeling he is getting sick of me or something? Any males please help me here, I love him but I cant afford to get hurt again

what are some signs that I should look out for?

How am i ment to make him love me more? What should I do?

Answer 1

if you think you can trust him, sit him down, get rid of all distractions, and just ask him how he feels.
if you dont think you can trust him, you shouldnt be with him.
just my two cents

Answer 2

Space and breathing room. Right now he might feel really choked up about all this and he needs to live and be a man once in a while and hang out with the fellas, while you need some girl time with the girlies.

I would say, don't depend on him too much, go and do your thing and try to be independent and do something on your own. He'll miss you when you're not around

Answer 3

well, i answered a question a few days ago and ill give you the same answer! everybody (males or females) in relationships go through flat patches every now and then. i put this down to hormones not running as high as they normally are! give him time and he will be all over you like a rash, and you wont be able to handle it. it wont take long so be patient ok. if it turns out different, i would have to guess he is cheating on you. sorry hope thats not the case. good luck!

Answer 4

9 months that is long enough to get into a rut of a routine. Try doing something different. Go out, stay in. Something to break up the usual. If things dont change then sit him down and ask him nicely and calmly. If he is worth it he will answer nicely and truthfully.

Answer 5

You don't. Your problem is obviously in your mentality. You "can't afford" to get hurt? Why not? How much will it cost you? 2 million 300 thousand dollars?
Truth is, you can afford to. You've obviously been hurt before, and you're still here. Worrying about it isn't going to prevent you from getting hurt again.
The problem seems to be your lack of faith in your own strength, and your lack of ability to trust. I feel that should be your focus, not how you can control the future.

Answer 6

If he's getting sick of you he will stop calling, texting, kissing etc... I'm sorry to say it, but if you think he's tired of you, he probably is. Sometimes after being in a relationship for a while it becomes more habit than healthy, when that happens it's time to find someone new.

Answer 7

give him a beer, voice your suspicions and steel yourself for what comes afterwards. You'll live. Even if your suspicions are true, you should never let that compromise your own self esteem lest you be too psychologically dependent on this boyfriend, which could also be a draining factor to any guy. If he has to go shake his hands and wish him the best.

Answer 8

i understand ur feeling, i have had done the same thing to my girlfriend and we end up with broke off, actually it is something that you want, though at that times my heart hurted but it cant be helped anymore, we have our own path and so do you. i still love her but like i said it cant be helped. make sure your decision is correct..

Answer 9

When my friend started to fall out of love with his girl, the bitched at her a lot for stupid things, so if he starts getting nit picky, be careful.

Answer 10

What makes u think there is something wrong. Why what have you done to have the feeling you have. Try to be good and he is likely to be as before.

Answer 11

if u find yiur not spending as much time together,thers less passion or even sex has dropped off. u have to get buisy make him love u again,and talk with each other more