So i been talkin to tis dude on myspace n he is so freakin nice, we get along great, like we known each other for years. I love his pics n him but today he put new pics n eww, he doesn't look cute no more. Now I don;t like hhim but I love him kinda, he so my type but he looks ugly. So what I am sayin is h is my kida guy n cute but now he ain't cute so i don't like him no more, whats wrong w/me???!!!
2007-03-08 19:55:54 · 27 answers · asked by O.o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is shallow a bad thig?
2007-03-08 19:59:20 · update #1
You're shallow.
2007-03-08 19:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been talking to this guy?? Trust me, if you were "in LOVE" with the dude, his looks would not matter. If you look at him and can't stand the sight of him then it may not mean that you are shallow, it may just mean that he hasn't given you enough to go on. It takes time to get to know someone. You can't fall in love that soon because you can't truely know someone that soon. And you surely can't fall in love with his great conversation,..there is so much more to it than a profile pic and a few things in common! As you get older, you'll learn! That is why the first thing you see that you don't like, you're ready to kick em to the curb...its nothing close to love.
2007-03-10 04:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be completely honest to you on this issue. Ive learned over time of the dating scenes that beauty is only skin deep. It shouldnt matter to noone about someones outer appearences what should really matter is the inside of someones mind and soul. The superficial things in life come and go as for someones character and heart levels those traits stay with someone forever!! The feeling love vs faking love affect is a concept I pray I never have to figure out again!!!!
2007-03-09 04:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by krazykat4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are basing what you want from a man on looks. Remember this "what is important in life is invisible to the eyes. Only the heart can see what is important" Look are nice but looks cannot be talk to they are not the person. The person is who you get along with. You will find as you get older that people with great personality will become more attractive to you for you will find them more important. You are seeing that now. Keep on thinking about how you like this guy for who he is not for how he looks
2007-03-09 04:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by pojediknight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, did you ever hear of some people are not very photogenic? Which means that they look better in person than sometimes in pictures. I have even seen people that are very good looking and when I met them in person. I couldn't stand them. So maybe; not all looks are everything is what that means. He might be a really cool guy and you need to get past the image. Good Luck
2007-03-09 04:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong u, only u are little bit too much influenced by people around, i believe u want a flawless guy whom u can flaunt. Baby there are times in life when u hav to stand on ur two feet and make a decision. Baby be decided
2007-03-09 04:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by ayothony007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a teenager and a shallow one to boot.
*****after your update****
Only if you don't let people know you are only going to value them superficially (and thereby knowingly hurting them) and/or have a problem with someone else never actually caring about anything but your looks. If that's the case though I can tell you that you are gonna be real unhappy after about 29 years old and you find yourself suddenly discarded.
2007-03-09 03:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'd have to agree with the other answers here...You're being shallow. I know I've been in long term relationships with more than a couple people who would be considered 'less than attractive' but that didn't stop it from being a joyful, loving relationship.
2007-03-09 04:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shaun L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound confused honey what do you want in a guy first of all?Looks aren't everything sometimes the heart is the most precious thing you can love.Try it you just might like it!!!! Next do some spell checking it makes for a good understanding.
2007-03-09 04:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Carol H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wrong is you way too young obviously. Geez, we have all gone through that stuff. Like him or don't, he is not the guy you will end up with because you have a whole life ahead of you. Just be a friend and forget the "love" stuff for now.
2007-03-09 04:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by shes_apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with actually having an interest in how people look. Don't listen to people who tell you it's "shallow." It's not their business who you are attracted to and who you aren't. You only NEED one partner for yourself, so make it someone YOU want to be with, not someone who everyone else tells you you're supposed to like.
2007-03-09 04:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋