i fight a lot with my bf but then i know i can't be without him, after each fight i promise him i won't do it again but then i do it again , i feel very guilty n then cry a lot for doing it , he know how im n most of the time i don mean wat i say while i fight , he loves me a lot n knows that we cannot live away from each other ,so we patch up within few mins of fight, but the thing is i want to avoid this habi of mine, i want to be gud, m not able to ,help me ? how can i be gud to him n fight less
2007-03-08 19:34:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am vary sorrie 2 brake this newws 2 u. ur bf is a astronaut. he is LISA NOVOKS. he was found guilty of kidnapping burgories!!!!! u MUST
2007-03-08 19:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think maybe you could be moody, or depressed even? Sometimes maybe you don't even know you are. Not saying you are. Maybe your mood can strike you that when something is said wrong or that you fight with him its not what you say to the person or maybe how it is being said. If you know your fighting too much. Maybe do things that change the habit. Maybe go for a walk and don't fight. Trying listening to him instead of arguing and seeing whose right or wrong sometimes can be just as bad. You might regret one day that the happiness you have together; you can't get back. So don't fight enjoy each other. Good luck.
2007-03-09 03:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still in the stage where you feel you get attention from doing the wrong thing , where you almost intentionally set yourself up to hurt yourself and your partner.. now stop!
think about your decisions , if you keep doing this your other half will pull the pin , and you will get into another relationship and do the same , you need to stop your self distructive pattern , and think to yourself why you do this , and understand that you dont need to punish yourself , and for what reason , you need to understand why you do this to yourself , and appreciate your other half for putting up with it , and make an effort to change it , because trust me , if you dont you will set your LIFE up for failure , from the repeated failed relationships.. try and undertand where or what the pattern of self distructive behaviour started..understand the problem , and change the pattern .. good luck to you both..
it isnt a big problem , and life will probably iron this problem out , but you need to change the problem before it turns into a painfull chain of events .
2007-03-09 03:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes submission is keeping your mouth silent. One way to stop nagging is, think 10 times, say it once. If you don't have something good to say, shut up. In that way, you keep yourself from fighting with him. Lastly I would like to congratulate you for finding somebody who truly loves you for who you are. Eventhough you fight him a lot, he still sticks with you. But be careful, an ounce of prevention is better than a pounds of cure.
2007-03-09 03:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really hard for person to change thier habit so just take it easy. and dont blame yourself from failing it. especially you know the fact that he will forgive you no matter what, thats why you cannot really control yourslef. i do understand that. just think before you do and think about there might be the chance he will leave you. there is no certain thing, and we can do so much to prevent the worse. what would you do if he really decides to break up?! i hope you will get over it.. there is no tips only yourself. and hope you dont learn from the painful experience!
2007-03-09 03:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by honeycoco23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel to be without him the next time you have a desire to fight. Hope this helps. Express your feelings only in a kind way.
2007-03-09 03:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see you asking that u wanna be some one...with whum he would love to be...
but baby the way you are and the way u fight with him....he loves that way of yours..!
baby just think if he changes...wont u feel amkward?? ??
ummm i should say that baby be the way you are...as per the fights...iz part of every relation but not everyone cries and apologizes and feeels guilty....
it takes a lot of courage to accept ur own mistake and apologize!
2007-03-09 03:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Naomi Cambell and maybe you could go to some therapy together... Now seriously change otherwise ine day he will get fed up with you...
2007-03-09 03:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a "break" in your relationship, that way you will learn to appreciate him more... or try not to be so rebellious, that way you two don't fight.
2007-03-09 03:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by WTF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to work out some agression, do you want my number?
2007-03-09 03:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋