I want the advise of any counselling person or sexologists or doctors. EXPERTS PLS HELP ME?

Question

From the childhood itself my lover had sex (may be illegal sex) with many girls daily. Two years before only we were introduced each other & we became good friends. He told me every thing about him (including his sex with other girls). I used to advise him not to do like this. After observing my character, one day he proposed his love to me. After a long argument i accepted his love keeping great confident that in future he will not do any illegal sex activities. From that day onwards he didn't kept any sexual activities
Iam very sure about it. I also gave lots & lots of advises to him & also gave counselling. He too realized & till now he didn't do any such activities. But he kept sex rarely (with me only).

Pls advise whether we two have to undergo HIV test?

Can i give birth to healthy child & is he capable for that?

PLS ADVISE US

Answer 1

If he has had sex with many different partners in his life, it would be very important for both of you to have an HIV test, together with tests for other sexually transmissible infections such as gonorrhoea and syphilis.

Provided you are both healthy, there is no reason from what you say that you couldn't have a healthy baby. The fact he's had lots of sex in the past shouldn't change that, so long as he hasn't picked up any infections. But it's important to find this out for sure.

I'd suggest you both see a doctor who specialises in sexual health together, and be honest about your experiences and your concerns.

Answer 2

yes as he had sex with many girls you both should go for a elisa test for hiv and you ll get pregnant ofcourse there is no problem if u dont have any sexually transmitted disease get the test done for those also if u have any rashes in the vaginal area or any rednessin the area

Answer 3

Very good question. I strongly suggest that you both should undergo Elisa test before marrying. Decide after seeing the report.