I just got over a relationship with a girl who I really loved and thought she loved me, but she ended up cheating on me. This scares me because she seems like the type that wouldn't cheat. Now I have no idea what qualities to look for in a girl to be sure she's not a cheater. I don't want to take chances because it really hurt a lot, but it was the best time of my life while it lasted. Any suggestions on what to look for BEFORE any emotions start?
2007-03-08 19:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a girl who isn't a lush (never pick up a chick at a bar). Make sure she has always had a strong male role model in her life (no daddy issues). If you can get in a girl's pants easily, that is a red flag(shocking, I know). Find a women who has a logic based brain (haha, just kidding, you'd be better off finding a unicorn.)
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife"
2007-03-08 19:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by THUB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent mentioned what went wrong? why she should cheat you? if atall you were honest in your relation ,let me assure you you are lucky because you dont want to stay with such girls for the rest of ur life.Infact you got a sesond chance to rectify your fault n her's ,Experience is the best teacher my friend..Women has a different openion on their partners it varies..
Dont get dissapointed.
I would suggest test her in small things eg. Go late intensionally an see what she says etc ..Try to know her more before u get serious in a relation.Thats all i have to say.
2007-03-09 03:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by nirupam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is million rupees question in the modern society. The girl who you love or want to love and want to marry in due course has got to be a positive nature girl. Get her passed life and try to understand what she want ? Get yourself involved slowly only if it maches your status, your lifestyle your earning and your social background. You have got to talk to her a lot to underatand her feeling about love, human being society and so on.
However if she has an ill feeling and wants to get everything from you, I think if you keep your eyes open you will understand.
Finally for such question there is no specific answer and it depends person to person.
2007-03-09 03:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gobinda Lal T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a girl who is into a religion. they dont cheat..
and a girl who is hard to get.
if you can get a girl who is easy,
then other guys can get her easy too.
becareful who u give ur heart too
and be honest to her.
and if she is honest to you, then trust her.
and tell her how much it would hurt you, if she cheats on you.
tell her you need to trust her, and tell her please dont hurt me.
and tell her the worst thing a girl could do to a guy is by cheatting on them. and just talk about it.
is with the same way, when you talk to your kids about doing drugs. ect.... and just pray to God, not Jesus, but THE GOD.
bcuz Jesus is a prophet not god. most people mis understood that. sorry this is not about religion.
i love Jesus he is one of the best.
hey, i hope this helps you out.
just be more careful
and what goes around comes around.
2007-03-09 03:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their track record is usually a very good sign. So find out about past relatinoships if you can, especially from the other person's POV, not the girl you wanna date.
2007-03-09 03:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone North of 300 pounds might be a good start...
2007-03-09 03:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all woman cheat it's all about timing they will either cheat with you on you before you or after you, just time it right
2007-03-09 03:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chastity belt is a good start
2007-03-09 03:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find a man that won't cheat , you will find the girl who won't do .....
2007-03-09 03:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by goldeneat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have rope??
2007-03-09 07:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by CharmingEric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋