Can girls pls help me how to approach a girl for friendship if i dont know her & i have seen her for first time.
Wht wud b the subject or question 2 b asked if i want to start the conversation....
girls pls help yaar.
2007-03-08 19:24:12 · 15 answers · asked by amit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just act normally. Don't flirt with the girl or give them lots of compliments or anything like that bc we'll assume you're being sleazy. Just be relaxed and ask about activities and interests and past-times and just have a normal conversation like you would with other guys.
Also, don't talk about sex and masturbation etc early in the friendship, if she wants to talk about it, she will.
I love having guy friends. It's tricky because if you push the friendship too much then she'll think you're interested. Instead of asking her to go out, ask her to 'hang out' amd it's better if there are other friends around so that you can introduce her as 'my friend, Sarah' etc.
2007-03-08 19:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a nice guy. I don't know how old you are, but if both of you are in a common place (the workplace, school, etc.) you can start from there. Ex: "How you think you're gonna do on that assignment for next week?" or "Isn't America beautiful, punching the clock for a check..." You don't necessarily have to say those things verbatim, but you can take that kind of approach to break the ice.
2007-03-08 19:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Teoshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach her like normal. Just talk about her and find something you have in common with her. I have a lot of female friends. Most of the time we see movies together or go out to dinner and talk about each others lives. It's nice to have a few women in your life that you are just friends with. They can give you insight into what your current gal is thinking or advice on how to wow her. Good luck.
2007-03-08 19:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am it,
You seem to be a flirt, so can you change your question and say How to approach a girl for friendship? Then I can help you.
2007-03-08 20:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, i understand your dilemma. well, you'd be happy to know that most girls are very friendly creatures...approach them nicely and they will soon consider you a friend.
anyway, perhaps you should talk to her about something related to the two of you...do you go to the same university, or work for the same company...you get the idea.
however, if you don't, it's probably best to speak about something related to your environment. perhaps you're in starbucks, make a comment about the quality of the coffee...something simple but sincere.
be warm... do not lean too close to her....keep the conversation liht and banterous. if she wants to talk about something more serious, she'll let you know.
good luck, honey!
2007-03-08 19:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by silivren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always say hello. Ask her how she's doing? Ask her what she does for a living. Start up a conversation wherever you might run in to her at. Asking general questions is a good rule. Sometimes people can take it wrong. So make it clear your just trying to be friendly thats it. Try to find something that you might have in common with them. Good Luck.
2007-03-08 19:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally start like the weather and something, just something basic. Then go like ' your name, by the way'. And naturally, she'll tell hers. Then just let the conversation flow. What you did over the weekend?, or just something.. just have the guts to talk and youll be fine. Dont be dramatic, dont try stupid pick up lines
2007-03-08 19:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....if u like a gurl....SHOW it....show dat ur interested in her.....Smile at 1st...if she showz "approachable" signs....walk upto her......keep smilin....prolly extend ur hand n introduce urself and start wid a "Hi!" it alwayz works....if she iznt rilly responding....juz dont force urself onto her.
Juz begin wid a Smile n slowly proceed t a Hi n a handshake n then pik up d signs shez giving U....
All d Best.I think datz enuff t make frendz....everythin elze wil take shape if u put urself across az a "amiable" and "fun" person.........dont make urself luk "desperate"
ALL D BEST! :)
2007-03-08 19:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by la_di_dah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at her face and give a good smile .Say hai and then start introducing urself
2007-03-08 19:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about i love ur hair or nice outfit then say hi my name is .... so i'm new here know of any good places to go
2007-03-08 19:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by ERICA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋