I got involved with a man who has a fiancee. I had gonorrhea, and he had, too. I told him not to tell anyone, and we self-treated it.
Then she found it out. She got tested and came back negative, yet she is not threatening to sue me, and she is making scandal, and is altogether nasty. She says she wants to sue me because she was pregnant then and it could have damaged the foetus.
Can I sue her back for harassment?
2007-03-08 18:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by epilot 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I know it was me because I was with another guy and he had it, too.
2007-03-08 18:52:07 · update #1
she is not pregnant any more, she had a baby.
2007-03-08 18:58:10 · update #2
and can I get money off her?
2007-03-08 19:31:15 · update #3
NO you can't sue her???????? Harassment would be very hard to prove plus once they have seen that you gave her a very nasty std they may want to sue which is probably not possible either
2007-03-16 19:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot self treat gonorrhea!Go to the doctor.How does she know you gave it to him. I hope you didn't know that you already had it and still had unprotected sex.That is so irresponsible.So why does she want to sue you if she WAS pregnant.If she's not anymore what's the problem?Go to the doctor and stay away from those people all together and in the future use some protection.Next time you might not be so lucky.You could end up with HERPES OR AIDS!!Things that will never go away and one of them is fatal.Grow up!!!
2007-03-08 18:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by lady2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you looking to sue?? Tell her you are sorry that your ways caused her so much damage. Then walk away, actually move far far away and hopefully learn a lesson from all of this. Be responsible for your own grown self. Dont rely on others to compensate for your short comings. Be an adult or at least try to act like one.
2007-03-16 13:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by erinxray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me?...Of course she is being nasty...you knowingly slept with HER boyfriend while she was pregant. (an extrememly emotional time), you gave her boyfriend gonorrhea, THEN instead of telling her about a potiental health risk to her and her BABY, you decided to "self treat" and keep it quiet! Did you really expect her to invite you to lunch and politely discuss this upsetting matter?...PLEASE...You should be thanking your lucky stars that she is only threatening to sue you instead of threatening to kick your A$$! THis is serious...while you and the BF were playing around, you could have KNOWINGLY caused damage to a helpless baby....YOu should be ashamed of yourself, instead of thinking of sueing for harassment.
2007-03-16 18:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by jess_pickel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should BOTH sue the guy. Unless you were messing around with other guys, he was probably sleeping with other women and gave it to you. You also DO deserve to get sued because YOU could have caused her baby to be born with severe problems, or have died. I hope you learned your lesson. Go find another cash cow.
2007-03-08 18:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you can't sue her. You technically gave her gonorrhea. You shouldn't mess with a man with a woman. Blame yourself. Okay?
2007-03-08 18:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by gEt In ThE cAr [DaRnIt] 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone and grow up and what were u doing getting involved with a man that was already takem. the gonnorrhea and the after effects of what is going on is karma telling u to stay away from men that are already spoken for move on and let go
2007-03-13 06:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you did was nasty! Can you possibly imagine what stress it is for a mother to know that her baby might have been hurt because of something like that? I would have sued you too. And I would have kicked my fiance's ***.
2007-03-08 20:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by petyado 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly I hate to be blunt, yet he would not even have the skill to definitively practice that the unborn fetus became into even his. there's a "criminal" presumption that a newborn "born" to a pair who's married is the husband's newborn, yet while they weren't married, to even have any form of say, he could nevertheless ought to coach paternity. And if she already had the abortion, no information as to the paternity could be testable for criminal actuality. different than that section observe, abortion is criminal, and girls have the final to decide on abortion. Sorry. There are at present no situations that i'm responsive to which have allowed a guy claiming to be the father of an unborn fetus any form of criminal rights or judgments of their want. That sucks on your buddy. If she lied to him approximately different stuff and deceived him and then got here lower back and relatively tried to nail him with it to harm him on purpose, i.e.,"intentionally" inflicting him emotional misery, then it somewhat is a various difficulty. in spite of the indisputable fact that, IIED claims are very difficult to be valuable on because of the fact they no longer in basic terms ought to coach that the guy intentionally wished to reason them emotional misery, yet in addition they ought to coach that it led to them actual ailment as a result. they ought to have an authorized wellbeing care expert testify that the actual ailment is at as quickly as the end results of the emotional-misery inducing incident.
2016-12-18 18:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait-you asked this on another board?!!Either that or the world is teeming with ignorant, self involved, dieseased laden trampy women who are lookign for some "easy" money from a new mom? Girl, slither fast back under the rock from which you came!
2007-03-08 19:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋