this guy i like..and he likes me (his friends told me..and him himself flirts with me alot..and gives me lots of signs that he likes me back)
BUT i left him a msg on this website..its like myspace but different.
i didnt write anything bad..i just said i was bored & thought i'd leave him a msg..then i said bye xoxo have a nice day.
later on i cheked his page and my msg wasnt there anymore.. im guessing he must of deleted it.
but y? ..is he pretending to like me?is he embarressed of me?
He is quiet shy..but i dont know whats going on..
2007-03-08 18:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt want his friends seeing that message especially if theres the 'xoxo' on it. u say he's shy then thats the reason, he doesnt want to get hassled by his mates; eg 'she likes you oooooooo' and that sort of stuff. my guess is he likes you, i mean even his friends say so. so stop worryin about it, and instead of leaving a message ask him out for coffee or something and talk to him in person. go get him girl :P
gl
2007-03-08 18:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to make the first move, but is still afraid of rejection. it would appear that he has some self esteem issues, this is why he flirts allot and sends the messages he does. It would appear that you have taken the control away from him, in his mind as long as he feels that he can have you anytime he wants, he wins, he can't get hurt. Since you called his bluff by sending that message, your no longer a challenge to him but a threat, because now he has to put up or shut up. He just took his control back, by deleting your message, with no response or acknowledgement of ever receiving it. Boys that behave like this definitely have issues that can be allot of work & unfortunantly are allot of times a waist of your time and the girl is usally the one who ends up getting hurt and left feeling like they have done something wrong, when in reality its the male who has some messed up ideas. Unless you like to be hurt and treated with disrespect, move on and find a real man. Note I did refer to him in the beginning as a boy. Fact : This one still has a lot of growing up to do. Life's short! Do you want to waist your time? Your answer in short form: You scared the Hell out of him and his game is up. Truly if he was any kind of
decent person to begin with why would you be doubting your self as being valuable by asking: is he embarressed by you.
2007-03-09 03:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by rosserlaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he definitely likes you, he probably just deleted it because he was embarassed! If a guy or girl is shy it's normal for them to be embarassed if someone they like indicates that they might like them back somewhere other people can see. If he acts like he likes you in real life don't let what he does over a website get you down!
2007-03-09 02:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that you dont know what's going on is because you havent simply asked him yet. its not good to go off of he say she say stuff it only complicates things. its best to go off of what you know. so if you dont know anything then what do you have to go off of. what im trying to say is just ask him what u want to know then go from there depending on wha he says.
2007-03-09 02:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought you being sarcastic. ask him, don't be shy )))
2007-03-09 02:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by explorer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋