7 months ago I found out my gf was cheating on me and we broke up since than I talked to her one time on the phone about 6 months ago since than I haven't talked to her even though she left me heartbroken I still have feelings for her and I still love her is there a chance than we might get back together in the future and if that happens should I talk her back?
2007-03-08 18:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by Patrick S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a hope, however, as the fact that she cheated on you, you SHOULD NEVER try to talk to her about going back together even you really want to. Because that will only make her think your love to her is so "cheap"(by saying cheap, i really mean its too easy and always there, she doesn't need to cherish it and appreciate it. no offense). You should wait for a little while and see if she still loves you. You may want to think about the reason behind that the fact she cheated on you. Whether there is anything wrong on your side. Did you treat her well enough, give her enough attention and such. She may cheat on you because she still loves you but you just couldnt get the feeling that she wanted. If that is the case, she may go back to you. But even she wants to, you need to make it the last time, otherwise, even you get back together and something goes wrong again, she may run off again just to get the attention back. DO NOT BRING IT UP IF SHE DOES NOT ASK YOU TO. you should not be to person to say "lets go back".
2007-03-09 06:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah_el 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask her back she will do it again. The only way you should even CONSIDER going back is if she comes back to you begging and prepared to make it up to you for as long as it takes to rebuild your trust in her. I suggest just moving through this heartbreak you're in day by day and one day you'll wake up and realize it doesn't really hurt so much anymore. I really don't think you should take her back. One of the common mistakes human's make is that we think if we could go back to a situation that things will pick up where they left off and everything will be peachy. It rarely works like that. It would be like going back to grade school. All the great memories you have of your friends and the recesses and fun kids stuff. In your mind you think you would go back and everything would be exactly the same. The truth is everyone has grown up and literally everything is different. It's the same when we long to go back to any previous place in time. It's just not the same. Good luck to you. 7 months isn't all that long to get over heartbreak. Give yourself some more time.
2007-03-08 18:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok check this out...lets just use some logic here...You broke up because she was cheating..i mean thats why you broke up right?....so what has changed that you would want her back?...if you take her back then why did u break it off to begin with. Oh yeah she cheated on you. And she cheated on you once....whats stopping her from doing it again. Taking her back only reinforces her bad behavior...in other words it tell her its ok to cheat because " I will always be here for you." Na you don't want to do this do you...think about it...you are putting your emotional inventory all on this one girl that cheated on you?....Wonder what would happen if you took that same likeable personality of yours and found another girl that wouldn't cheat on you...Now theres an idea for ya!...Good Luck!
2007-03-08 18:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane? She was the one who cheated on you so she should be the one calling you to make up. You said you haven't talked to her in six months, don't you think that if she wanted to make the relationship work she would have contacted you by now?? move on... she's not worth it.
2007-03-08 18:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by monika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's your choice to make. If you can handle the fact that she cheated on you and that she could do it again, then go for it. Forgiveness is great, but not forget the action. Good Luck! n
2007-03-08 18:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say that 'theres always a chance' =]
Goodluck =] =]
2007-03-08 18:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? people deserve a second chance if she really means it.
2007-03-08 18:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart says!
2007-03-08 18:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont open this can of worms. Its only gonna end in hurt. Forget her man. For your sake please listen!
2007-03-08 18:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋