oh....by the way i never had a boy friend before...too busy studying...i never talked to this boy before only smiled at each other once...but i cant seem to like other guys coz im always thinking bout him.... plz help....
2007-03-08 18:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh he's not someone i randomly met...he's my neighbour....
2007-03-08 19:21:33 · update #1
It depends...Are you like having a REALLY hard time with it...or aRE YOU JUST THINKING ABOUT HIM OFF AND ON???
You may need to talk to a counselor about it...POST tramatic stress syndrome if it's really serious like he just died all over again...
But If you just think of him somtimes and it makes you cry...just realize it take a long time to recover...Just try not to dwell on the past...Hopefully you will NEVER forget him..that would just be sad...Just step away from thinking about him too much...live in the now...You will find a life mate one day and it will get easier!!!
2007-03-08 18:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa Kay 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are using him as a crutch and/or excuse. That's as crazy as me saying that the stranger I saw on the street (and found attractive) that winked at me is the reason I can never move on or go out with a guy. I would be okay, except he had a sudden heart attack and died right before me.
It's time to quit using this poor guy that has died only to justify your own insecurities. You need to get real with yourself and ADMIT to why you claim to or won't let yourself like other guys....
2007-03-08 18:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by jennainhiding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that this happened. But try to let go of it. Don't let something like this hold you back from meeting a wonderful guy who could make you happy. Good luck! n
2007-03-08 18:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By time you will meet someone special that really can melt you down , make you happy and useful .
Let go the past, grab the future.Unlock your heart, open its wide and you will feel loves.
2007-03-08 18:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by laziifrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit his grave so you can make peace with him and yourself. You have every right to feel sad, and it's completely natural for you to keep thinking about him. Put a single red rose on his stone, say a prayer, and move on, but never forget him.
2007-03-08 18:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time will heal.
Make an extra effort to meet guys.
Eventually your heart will move on
2007-03-08 18:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems u have this special feeling for this guy... well, its not easy yo forget one that u have feeling with, or even love with... like me, till now still cant forget my 1st ex who died in 2000...
2007-03-08 18:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u feel guilty because now u wonder what could have happened if u two were together. u have to learn to let go of the past and move on..
2007-03-08 18:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋