Ok this maybe embarrassing but I'm 29 and still a virgin, not that I intend to keep it untill marriage but I just want to do it with the girl I love and I haven't found her yet.. Then there was this girl who really liked me but she was not my type and she went along to seduce me. Ok I'd be a hypocrite if I won't admit that she makes my banana stand, she really knows how to turn men on and she was sexy but she had been known to sleep around with some of my friends and God knows she might have STD. I was able to resist but I don't know how long I can hold on because she keeps flirting and coming to me and my d*ck is aching to get into her. I know that this is just lust but what should I do to avoid her? Should I tell her outright to stop what she is doing and to stay away form me? or should I give in to my lust and give up my virginity?
2007-03-08 18:25:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on Tinker honestly what does sex have to do with love? Get a condom and have fun!
2007-03-08 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by quick8stang29 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you have doubts about whether she might have std's or not then don't do it. Tell her that you just want to be friends not lovers. Ask her to stop flirting with you because your not interested. Even though you might be physically you did say she wasn't your type. Also try to avoid her maybe she will get the picture. You don't want your first time to be with a whore do you? Tell her without hurting her feelings if thats possible. I wouldn't go for it, but that is my opinion. And way to go for holding out this long. You will not regret it. Some wonderful woman will appreciate that. If your waiting for the one you love to share that with then you might as wait till your married. Don't let the devil get the best of you like all these other guys.
2007-03-09 02:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if she sleeps around then maybe it's not such a good idea to have sex with her.
Confront her on her sexual habits. Or at least, show her your point of view.
You know when I was younger I used to think that having an emotional connnection with someone would make my sex better.
.......it's doesn't.
It's pretty much still the same to me. You basically get your jollies off and then eat some pizza and then roll over and fall asleep. Never fails...
But basically what I mean is...if you need to do it then do it...But an STD is never worth the real thing.
It'll pretty much suck to get an STD on your first time. You might as well shoot yourself in the head after that.
2007-03-09 02:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've managed to save yourself until now because you only want to have sex with someone you love, wouldn't giving in to a girl who just wants to seduce you make all those years a waste? If you think you'd be relieved to finally just have random sex with someone, go for it. But if you think you'll just wish you kept waiting until you met the right girl, then definitely don't. Virginity isn't something you can get back. In which case you should just tell her to stop, and she almost certainly will.
2007-03-09 02:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel guilty for doing so.
A lot of women like a challenge, and one of the greatest challenges is getting a virgin. But not suprisingly, once they get what they want, they seem to disappear...
2007-03-09 02:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to make your own decision but you could tell her to back off and you will think about it-you should look around. Sex and love should go together!
2007-03-09 02:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have way more willpower then me dude. But all i have to tell you is if you kept it that long, make it the one you love so its just that much better. The first time will be amazing. Tell her to fk off
2007-03-09 02:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by x_ampz_x 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she is messing with you because you are fresh meat. I would say have fun with her and move on. But if you are seriously concerned about STD and her then I would try to have my fun with someone else. But you decide....
2007-03-09 02:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. You want to do it with the girl you love and you haven't found her yet. Hold on to your patience.
2007-03-09 02:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by z 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. its not everyday u get a women throwing herself at you. and since ur a virgin a she seems to have a lot of experiance, she might teach u a thing or two.
2007-03-09 02:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋