i'm happy with my bf, but don't know if its a "forever" thing. ie/ he might not be exactly what i want. should i just keep enjoying it and see where it goes. or break it off now?
2007-03-08 18:20:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why break it off now? Have you ever taken a part time job? If you did, were you planning on staying with that job forever? Or was it just the right thing for you at the time? I kind of look at relationships the same way. I was pretty sure my girlfriend wasn't the "one" for me, and I had a talk with her about it. And she gave me some pretty wise advice. If you're happy now, in this moment, why worry about the future? Staying in a relationship you aren't planning on being in forever isn't going to ruin your life. In fact, it could help. It could teach you about relationships, for one thing.
And fact of the matter is, now I'm not so sure that my relationship with said girlfriend is so temporary... things change!
2007-03-08 18:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u want in a relationship? A relationship will last if u toOK it seriously, if think to have him around as a boyfriend to u and u enjoy his company, do u really love your boyfriend. U seem to be taking easy on this relationship it don't work u break off with him and it does work u keep enjoying it like its a game to u. Honey, a relationship is not a game. I cant tell u what to do but, i don't see u to hurting yourself or yr boyfriend in the end ok.
2007-03-08 18:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't rush these things... AND you can't rush men with these things... You'll end up scaring them away... The best thing to do is enjoy what you have now and get to know each other better and see if you'll end up together forever ^_^... If you still feel like there is something missing, then maybe you just need a little breathing space away from each other and if that still doesn't work then it's time to go...
2007-03-08 18:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Yunie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him u never know if u two were meant to be ! Give it time to get used to !
2007-03-08 18:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy and be happy being with him..you'll never know if he is the one...don't break with him if you still love him..or else you'll regret later...
2007-03-08 18:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him more time, you can never be sure! :D
2007-03-08 18:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Chraei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋