well there's this guy I like..and we talked...and I discovered that he's 25...still lives with his parents/works double shifts at work..go to church three times a week....says that he's only had two girlfriends..that he's been intimate with...and went on to say that he doesn't believe in friends with benefits"...and he's a one woman man type of guy...would this be someone you would consider? Why or why not?
2007-03-08 18:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds well grounded for a 25 year old. Why wouldn't you want to date him? He lives at home so there's no of that late nite partying, he's got a job, he goes to church, he's not promiscuous and faithful to his partner.
I'll be the 1st one to admit that he's a safe option but bad boys will break your heart but I dont think this guy has it in him to hurt you on purpose.
Goodluck!!!
2007-03-08 18:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he says all the right things but lets wait a minute here. In whatever time you have gotten to know and be around him, does he prove what he says by his actions? If so then you need to ask your self the next test.....How does he make you feel?.Does he make you feel like you are the center of the universe? Is he considerate? Is he responsible, trustworthy?Remember...dating is all about not just having fun but gathering information about all your guy experiences so that one day you can analyze that information so that you can make a intelligent decision about the kind of guy you will or won't marry.
Good Luck!
2007-03-09 02:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, but to me it means a lot of things. He works very very hard, may be in college? Being in a college has an effect on still staying home, even him working two jobs. Maybe talk to him about him ever moving out? He is also active in the community at least.
2007-03-09 02:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dingdingdong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, for sure, he sounds lovely.
although think it might be nearly time he moved out of his parents place.
reasons why i think he's a catch - 25 (i'm 21 so that'd be perfect), - works double shifts (works hard, plenty of drive, won't be short of cash), only had 2 real gf's and doesn't do the F.W.B's (shows integrity and not sleaziness), - one woman man (he's not gonna cheat on you).
If you liked him, I would say why are you even hesitating?
but the most important thing is - does he treat you well? do you enjoy his company?
2007-03-09 02:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elle W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure! providing he knows how to balance the 'serious' stuff with fun too! He's got morals and his head's screwed on straight, I think he's one of the good ones! Living with his parents shouldn't be a problem unless they molly coddle him and he allows it. If the connection's there, I say go for it! :)
2007-03-09 02:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he is a hard worker who doesn't sleep around. And is saving money by living with his folks.
He sounds better than most guys
go for it
2007-03-09 02:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me personally wouldnt date him cause im a little of a b*tch i only date guys older than me who have their own place own car nice car who takes me out and buys me things i dated so many guys that were basically freeloaders that i said its time to date a guy who will buy me things pay when we go out stuff like that but you have to ask yourself does he make you happy is he a good guy do you trust him and not think about or care what people think if he is good to you and you like him
2007-03-09 02:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by shyababy05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep ...he sounds responsible !! at least he's not out there smoking weeds n doing silly stuff !! ...however since he's working double shifts wont that be like hard to date him ? ....
2007-03-09 02:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds responsible, not wild, emotionally stable--in other words, good husband material. But what kind of girl are you? Wild or stable?
2007-03-09 02:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, sounds like a great guy.
2007-03-09 02:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋