For Valentines day, I bought my bf of 2 years (we were living together) a membership to a health club. I havent paid for the whole thing yet, and I think I can cancle it. Anyway, he has moved out. We were supposed to be doing a trial separtation, and at the end of a month we were going to see if the relationship can be saved. Maybe even get married in the future. We both agreed to be faithful during this time of reflection. Well, right away he stopped answering my calls. he would wait a day or 2 before returning my call. Said he was coming over and didnt come on a few occasions. Then the kicker was, I knew he stayed out one night, and I saw guilt in his eyes the next day. A few days later I asked him what happened that night and he got angry and said that "You are nothing at all to be asking me this question" we got into a huge fight and I completely broke up with him. I think he cheated. Should I take back the expensive membership? Or is that wrong?
2007-03-08 18:03:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as you want to and most people do, A gift is something you give with no strings attached. I would just let him have that gift and just move on!
2007-03-08 18:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the membership my friend. Get him out of your life completely. No good!
2007-03-09 02:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not paid for it, cancel. You probably are not going to see this guy again, so why make payments on someone else who you really don't care for. It would of been different of course if it were completely paid for.
2007-03-09 02:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that once a gift is given that it can't be taken back but perhaps u should take into consideration what gift if any he gave u in return.
2007-03-10 00:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by the ox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definatel cancel the membership!
2007-03-09 02:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by confidential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋