I'm really into this guy who is a friend of a friend who comes around to hang out with us sometimes. He's alittle older than me (5 years) and he's sooooo got his stuff together. Tall dark and very handsome, intelligent and educated, hardworking man. I think he digs me too but damn I get so intimidated by him. I'm afraid I come across as an airhead b/c I get too giggly and can't think of things to say. It's unusual to get this way around guys but dam n like I said-he's got it going on! Anyways, what are some things anyone has done to get over the nervousness and butterflies? I really want to get to know each other better.
2007-03-08 17:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always used to be like that and i thought i still was until this guy i liked called me over and started talking to me. Just be confident in yourself and ask him questions so you wont be the one talking so much. Even if you are nervous try to act like your not.
2007-03-08 17:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need a little help with these situations like a trusted friend. You need to get a bug in his ear he needs to know you are interested. But come on to him is not the way to do it and since you are so nervous around him you are probably blowing any chance you have. So if you got a friend that can help you that would be the way to go. after you know he is interested he will either make his move or ignore you then you will know if you are wasting your time being nervous around him.
2007-03-08 17:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is soooo wild. I have the same problem. Now that that ego trip is over :) here's an answer. Don't be intimidated. Obviously you're pretty fine too since you appreciate quality when you see it. So stay confident and talk to him. See what happens instead of making yourself crazy with the what if's.
2007-03-08 17:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by ginzawasabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be open to any possibility. Don't go in with expectations. It may work out, or it may not.
And always--always!--just be yourself, societal "expectations" be damned.
2007-03-08 17:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself who cares what other ppl think!
2007-03-08 17:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so simply ask him out b4 its too late
2007-03-08 17:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by chhavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋