This guy and i are having sex with each other unprotected and i only knew him for about three weeks. He took me out to the movies and dinner and he payed for it. I spent the night at his house about 3 times and he spent the night at my house about 3 times also. One morning we even took a shower together and he washed my back for me, then said his grandfather used to say if someone wash your back its a good sign. I don't know what to think, if he like me or what. What do you think. Should I ask him how he feel about me.
2007-03-08 17:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you be sleeping with someone that much and be washing their back if you didn't like them? Or are you talking about a little more than like? Why would you go and ask him if he liked you? He's the male, let him do the leading when it comes to the love game. Meaning-don't chase! Females do that sometimes, and they get carried away, and end up chasing the guy away. Just be cool, make your time together fun, add a lot of humor to your meetings, and love life!!
2007-03-08 17:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask him. You clearly want to know, so why not?
Some would say you'll be pushing too close, or some nonsense of the like. I've never understood the idea of "scaring somebody away." I feel this is a problem with our culture (USA); it places a large premium on avoiding directness. The result of this is an inability on the part of both partners to communicate freely and honestly with each other. Also, it places value on acting with one's gender roles, following arbitrary rules as to what men and women "should" or "shouldn't" do. This is also nonsense, and will impair a relationship in the same way.
The bottom line: always be yourself, and always be open. Do not go down the road of manipulation. Otherwise, real relationships don't exist.
2007-03-09 01:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I got lost after "we're having unprotected sex."
Have you lost your mind??
A man that has unprotected sex with a woman does not have her best interest at heart. Use caution - and PROTECTION
2007-03-09 01:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Why are you having unprotected sex? 2) Ask him.
2007-03-09 01:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by ginzawasabi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are about a half dozen visits late in asking.
2007-03-09 01:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still not pregnant. Who is at fault. Check and decide your future.
2007-03-09 01:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by RAGHAVAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to ask as silence is golden,u can feel the different about his reaction.
2007-03-09 01:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋