so a while ago my ex broke up with me because he "needed a break" but told me that he really wanted to be together again in the future, and blah blah. well a little bit after the break up, we started arguing and really stopped talking. now months have passed, and we really haven't talked too much at all.
well now, he kind of knows that ive moved on a bit, and like someone else (an old flame which i guess never ended) and i really dont know how he's reacting, since i dont see him ever. but recently he sent me a random IM saying "nice" and then left without saying anything else.
what could this possibly mean? or am i just thinking about it too much?
but if hes just playing around with me....why is he doing that??!
2007-03-08 17:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just leave him alone, dont even be friends w/ him.. Seems he's full of drama... so ignore him..
2007-03-08 17:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cant have you anymore same goes for women & their former men. I have had several exs come back even years later & want to know everything about everything & be friends again & all that especially talk about how good I was to them & all that but then cant figure out what they want. One was married of all things LOL. I hope you pursue the new ex since it's been a while since you two were together yet still have that desire I hope its more then sexually though. Good luck...
2007-03-08 17:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by mas8baller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wanted some space to do what he wants and come back to you when it's convenient for him. He "needed a break" even though he wants to be together in the future? That means I want to screw someone else but won't do it until you're not in the picture but I'll be back when she dumps me. He thinks you should be waiting for him. He laid down the rules and now you're not following them. When he needed a break he didn't ask for your opinion he just did it. Move on or he'll do it to you again when someone else comes along.
2007-03-08 17:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, once you get to a certain point in a relationship and try to go back - most people can't be just friends or just acquaintances. He's acting like he's just an acquaintance. If an acquaintance did this - you wouldn't think anything of it right? Most guys lack emotional understanding and their IQ when it comes to women is in the negative digits. Just move on - this guy is yanking your string.
2007-03-08 17:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE just keep a look out on it ok because i am going though the same thing ok i know how you feel you are scared to death right well i know i am i just left my ex 2 months ago ok and he is doing the same to me has yours is doing to you but my ex calls me and follows me were ever i go he is there so you really need to which him and make sure he want do nothing stupid or crazy ok so please just be CAREFUL with him and don't piss him off in anyway have your new man close by ok
2007-03-08 17:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Beckie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it either, i realy dont. boys are weird, i chalk it up to that. my ex comes and goes as he pleases, and we just sort of have to ride it out. he says he has no interest in me, but then he will blurt somethign out about how hot i look, and he has told numorous people that im the best sex he has ever had, and all this other stuff that doesnt add up (our situation is exceptionally complicated) yours however, at this point, i think you'd be best if you just left him alone. if you have moved even a little then thats a step in the right direction. he sounds like he is just trying to be irritating.
2007-03-08 17:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes the one that "needed a break". seems to me he was interested in someone else and broke it off with you to pursue it, and moved you to the back burner with the "wanting to be together in the future" line. Move on and forget about him. tell him you are over him (if you are) and not interested in haveing a relationship with him. as far as the IM, sounds real mature to me so your prolly better off without him.
2007-03-08 17:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that say "we'll try this later on" are really just control freaks and he's playing mind games on you.
Don't worry about that jerk! If you have really moved on, then you shouldn't care if he's pissed off or not.
2007-03-08 17:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ammie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to see if he still has a hold on you....Blow him off and get on with your life ...This type comes in a "DIME A DOZEN" Not worth your time....
2007-03-08 17:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and confront him. Otherwise you just make yourself crazy wondering.
2007-03-08 17:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by ginzawasabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋