Ok my gf is 15 going on 16 and me I'm about to finish up high school in june. Today we were fooling around and I was joking when I said lets do it without a condom and she said yeah at first I thought she was joking and I told her to quit playing around but she said she wasnt joking around. So I asked her why and she said "i want a baby with you because i love you, and i want a part of you and me to be together" So after talking to her about this for about 4 hours , telling her all the down sides and of this and that one day she might wake up and regret me and our baby if we have one. She stuck with her plan that she wants a baby and yeah tryed to get me to do it with her right then and to get started on it but I told I had homework I better go do and on the way out she told me to think about this cuz this is big. What is her deal? What should I do? What is there to do?
2007-03-08 17:35:21 · 30 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it.
2007-03-08 17:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by chekeir 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at first there is an age distinction and you'll be able to nicely be watching penal complex time for statuatory rape. 2nd, do you think of a fifteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous female is able to be a mom? Do you think of that bringing a infant into this occasion is physically powerful? in case you spoke back definite to the two of those questions then you particularly are actually not being hassle-free. At 15 there are severe wellbeing concerns for her too. you're actually not even married or perhaps commited. you would be helping this infant for an prolonged time and you think of you will do this as quickly as you're a college pupil. what's the upside? Neither of you is waiting.
2016-09-30 10:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man don't be stupid having a child is not a big responsibilty it's a HUGE responsibility. It sounds good and all but the bith of you have plenty of time to worry about things like that. She's not even 16 yet and just tell me how the both of you are going to suppot a child. don;t be selfish when it comes to children they don ask to be here and if you are not in a position to fully devote your time and love and financial support for a child then you should wait until you are ready. And please understand that you don't have children just to get someone to love you or be with you because it just doesn't work that way. You should tell this girl that the both of you are really young and that you don;t think that it would be in the best interest of the child at this time. Good luck
2007-03-08 17:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna say what everyone else is going to say. YOU ARE BOTH TOO YOUNG!!!
Sorry, mate, but you need to stop having sex, because now you can't trust her.
What if she pokes a hole in a condom just so she can get pregnant?
All 15 yr old girls have the same fantasy, they want to be a mommy and be married, but in reality, 15 is just too young.
She is not done with high school yet, she still lives with her mom, she has no job. She NEEDS to go to college and get a job before having a baby, that way she can take care of herself financially!
Seriously, you need to lay off the sex for awhile because she will be trying to get pregnant and you do not need that type of responsibiity right now, hun!
Cheers and lose the psycho girl!
2007-03-08 17:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies are such a nice way to start people!
Have a child. You will grow into manhood and she will make a wonderful mother.
Now, your parents, school and government will lie and teach you that babies are bad, and that you are unworthy to create a fantastic miracle. This is because they are small, petty and jealous.
Have all the children you can, and ignore the "lessons" of others.
A century ago, babies were welcomed. Today, in our degenerate society, they are esteemed as burdens, "sins" and unfortunate occurances.
If God did not want babies to be born...He would not have made the process so fun. Nothing you will ever do will come close to the wonder, the glory and the endless potential of having and rearing a child.
Go for it!
2007-03-08 17:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DTB dump that *****... trust me... it may be the most important decision of your life. Shes obviously a dumb *** to want to get knocked up at 15 and plans on being a loser the rest of her life. Even if you try to stay safe, she has the mentality to do the evil things like go on the pill then stop taking it, poking holes in condoms, pouring whats in the condom inside her, and many other things. So if you continue being with her, put hot sauce in your used condoms, never use a condom she gives you, and learn her cycle when she is ovulating and dont see her during that time. Get rid of her. If your banging her, im sure you could be banging other girls. Dump her, dump her, dump her.... I cant emphasize that enough.
2007-03-08 17:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to have my boyfriends baby when i was about that age and a little older and so did he at one stage. We are not together now, so if i had of done, i would have regretted it so bad. Its not a very good idea to have a baby when your that young. Live your life a lilttle first. She is so infactuated with you right now that she wants to live happily ever after. Talk to her and tell her you do not want a child right now until your in you 20's or something, unless you want to.
2007-03-08 17:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young to have a baby. It would not be fair to the baby. Wait until you both have finished your education and gotten good jobs. You have plenty of time.
Keep using a condom. Do not give in.
2007-03-08 17:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by m15 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex w/ her if she insists on not using a condom. You're both too young to have the responsibility of a baby. Can you even take care of yourself? (financially, first). Regardless of her beautiful sentiment of having a part of you and her together she's too young. If she loves you so much she can wait 5 years when she's of legal age.
2007-03-08 17:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls get crazy ideas in their heads sometimes that if you have a baby with someone, they will have to be with you. Lots of girls get pregnant on purpose thinking this will keep their relationship together forever. You are both wayyyyyyy too young. Don't do it without a condom. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Don't mess it up.
2007-03-08 17:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by queenB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!!!! do u really wanna b tied to a 16 yr old for the rest of ur life? cause u would probably feel real guilty if u realized that there was someone else at ur college that u liked better, and had to leave he rin the dust, its a baaaaaaaaaaaaad idea!!!!!!!!!! she may not regret it now, but she definately will later!!!
2007-03-08 17:46:06 · answer #11 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋