Is it normal to be nervous before your first time of having sex? Because it seems like I'm alot more nervouse than she is... But I am kinda just wondering... And how could I keep from being less nervous? Yes I know... Kind of an unusual subject... But I'm just wondering...
2007-03-08 17:13:53 · 10 answers · asked by The Shadow Wolf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows I am nervous because I talk to her about anything having to do with us...
2007-03-08 17:17:51 · update #1
i bet if you just tell her that your nervous she will find this very cute and charming and she will probably take control of the situation and make it easier on you. good luck
2007-03-08 17:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by christianrosencruz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal!!!! I just had my first time recently...and i was sooo nervous beforehand...ti took like an hour with the guy before I was ready to just "go with the flow" and actually do it....and this was even after planning the whole thing out like 3 days in advance, and thinking it over for that amount of time too...it's a big step, so of course you'll be nervous or unsure...it's nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-03-08 17:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most people are very nervous before their first time. It's natural. Some people just hide it better then others.
The best way to relax is to talk about it....talk about what you both like to do...then when the time comes you won't be guessing. I think not knowing what to do would make you even more nervous. So find out! ;-)
2007-03-08 17:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous then maybe you should just wait. Perhaps you are not ready yet. There is NOTHING wrong with waiting for a while before making love to your woman.
Who says it has to happen soon?
You could wait for 6 months, you could wait for a year, or you could actually wait til yall are married.
Why rush into anything? You are young, and you have the rest of your lives ahead of you, don't rush into anything.
Chers
2007-03-08 17:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. Just educate yourself on safe sex practices before you begin.
2007-03-08 17:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first I did it with this girl i was shaking LOL. Just relax man it's alot of fun enjoy it.
2007-03-08 17:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a few beers first,,if you screw up,,blame it on the drinks,,everyone is nervous the first time,,normal,,
2007-03-08 17:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by lisadivirgilio 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remeber its a natural feeling you have. i think everyone that answers this question will say they were nervous their first time too because that is exactly what it is.......YOUR FIRST TIME! you want everything to go smoothly and you also want it to be memorable.
2007-03-08 17:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't do it. Having sex needs to be enjoyed and with that aspect, you don't seem to enjoy it. Take your time, don't hurry.
2007-03-08 17:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course because we have our nervous system
2007-03-08 17:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by imsupersavannahxxi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋