My bf and i have been together for a little over 3 years and we both love eachother. We are both in college and i live with him and his parents, except when i am at school. Recently a guy i have known for over 4 years called me and told me he was engaged but he wanted to see me. As we continued to talk he told me that he just wanted to hold me again and to look into my eyes and kiss me. I love my bf i really do, but ive always had feelings for this other guy and because he lived so far away we never really tired to date but neither one of us has ever really gotten over eachother. When i think about this other guy i get butterflies in my stomach and i think about seeing him again and my heart begins to race. Im so confussed at what to do. The other guy wants to come visit me at college, what do i do? My bf knows ive had feelings for this guy for a while and we've almost broke up over it before, but i just dont know what to do. I am 20 my current bf is 19 and the other guy is 20.
2007-03-08 16:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by dizziedupbaby0127 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont do anything yet...the guy is about to get married...dont express your feelings for him because you have a bf..if he comes to visit its ok to see him but dont do anything to cheat...this will give you time to think and it will give him time to figure out his situation...i dont think you should leave your boyfriend unless you know for sure and i think you should wait this out...time will tell
2007-03-08 16:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Im.An.Allstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is tottally up to u and u can do what u want to do but if u have tried it and it has not worked out and u have a good thing going with the man u are with then i would tell the other guy that he need to go ahead and get married to the women he asked and let u move on the best u can if it still don't work and u to get together in the future try again then. good luck and everything
2007-03-08 16:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Dont dump your guy just coz the other guy's 20!Thats stupid!
Just ask your self, IS THE GUY REALLY WORTH LEAVING YOUR B/F FOR??What are you gonna miss out on if you dump your guy??
What about the 3 years??DId you just waste his time so that you could come dump his a** b'coz of Mr.Wonderful??
Askk yourself, Listen to your heart!!!!
2007-03-08 16:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay stay with your bf the golden rule about dating never give up the person you love for the person you like because the person you like will find someone else he loves and now your all alone so just stay with your current bf
2007-03-08 17:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved your boyfriend the way you are claiming it, why are you still asking this question, dont be scared, face what you are feeling, take the chance with this other guy, sometimes its hard being trapped in the road taken, try the road not taken.
2007-03-08 16:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that in case you have been and presently are questioning your present day relationship then you would desire to in all probability evaluate happening a wreck consisting of your boyfriend. yet until now you try this consult with him and ask him what he rather needs with you - if he says he sees the two one in all you at the same time long term then communicate your dwelling situation, and tell him how displeased you're with it, yet none the fewer you recognize why the two one in all you're at this form of distance. in case you do not purely like the tip results of the verbal substitute tell him you like sometime to think of and happening a wreck purely to get far off from the area for some days will help you clean your head and confirm what you certainly need to ensue, this will additionally provide him time to think of. once you're in this wreck with him consult with the different guy from paintings and locate out his intentions, tell him you and your boyfriend are presently on a wreck and be honest approximately your thoughts in the direction of him, tell him not having him on your existence in any respect makes your understand how lots you enjoyed spending him until now, ask him if he would be comfortable with the two one in all you attending to renowned one yet another greater then pals (for now keep it to dates and issues until you and your boyfriend are formally over) ultimately its rather as much as you nonetheless bypass with the guy who you have greater authentic thoughts for kick aside the reality which you have been consisting of your boyfriend for an prolonged time. Be with whoever makes you happier.
2016-12-18 09:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never leave the one you love for the one you like, cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love
2007-03-08 18:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Carley<3Nathan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donut do it you'll regret it.
2007-03-08 16:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋