Is it wrong to keep a secret from my boyfriend? I was born a guy and went through a sex change operation. I seriously felt that I am in the wrong body. Now that I am a girl, I have a really great boyfriend that I love. He loves me too. We are both 28 years old. We've been together for at least 5 years already. Is it wrong to keep that secret from him? I know he will ask me to marry me soon.
2007-03-08 15:35:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
we made love a lot of times.
2007-03-08 15:36:52 · update #1
you should of told him sooner. You need to tell him the turth if he really loves you than he will understand. But keeping this from him is wrong and you shouldnt keep sercerts you need to tell him. Be honest and tell him how it all happend and make him understand.
2007-03-09 06:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself first before u tell your boyfriend that u have a sex change, how will he react to u when i tell him that, that is the first point, and will u have kids later is another problem, so before u do anything see a doctor to see u can have a baby with him. if the doctor said that u are female so be it be a female to him, and there is nothing wrong with u Jenny. so don't worry so much ok. Just be who u are to him.
2007-03-09 02:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he needs to know especially if he wants children you can not offer children to him and when he realizes there is a problem and wants to go to a doctor and figure it out then you are now married and at square one again of having to tell him the truth but now he realizes he married a liar so its time to come clean and to be honest you have to accept the out come because you should have been honest from day one about this and now you are gambling with a lot more but that's the price you pay for not being honest!
2007-03-09 00:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not something you think about sharing after 5 years--that's pretty much something that needs to be discussed ON THE FIRST DATE.
If you tell this guy he will probably end up in a mental hospital or even worse, jail because he will kill you.
Good luck with this one--I wouldn't wear white.
2007-03-08 23:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by meg91084 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes because getting married to someone means most times you want to start a family with them & thats something you cant fake. Also if you really love someone you wouldn't keep a secert like that from them. You should tell him asap because its not fair to him at all.
2007-03-12 12:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by schristine23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong that kids like you find it's some sick game by going into serious adult sites and telling lies. Go back and have your milk and cookies and do some home work and get life. Maybe do some constructive things that teens do. If someone kicks your butt in school tomorrow, you will deserve it.
2007-03-09 00:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by abbacat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love the guy, you should tell him how you felt about you being in the wrong body. If he really does love you, he will understand.
2007-03-08 23:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by cootiesr4guys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell him while in the presence of a really good couples therapist. Be ready for him to be mad and not want to be with you.
2007-03-12 23:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, probably should. You know how the truth always surfaces? It's actually quite wrong that you've kept it from him all this time.
2007-03-09 00:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by diegomcnamara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you cannot have children? Is there ANYWAY possible that he could find out? If so, you better tell him. Good luck.
2007-03-09 00:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋