What do guys look for in a girl?

Question

what do guys look for in a girl? what do they like most about a girl? what usually makes a guy fall for a girl? etc... I'm totally interested in anything you have to add to that!

Answer 1

They look for their mother....

Answer 2

It depends on what they want at that time. Guys will take anything that looks easy for the short term. Guys will act interested, give complements and go along to get what they want.
If a guy is REALLY liking a girl, then he's shyer, more sincere, doesn't play games, doesn't look at other girls and doesn't push her into intimacy. He takes it more slowly and cautiously.

So in short: for a short fling he looks for "easy and available"

For serious, long term love and marriage, he looks for classy, hard to get and sweet.

Notice how the women say boobs and bum more than the men. Women think those are more important than they really are, because that's what men show interest in outwardly, but deep inside men want a girl they can be proud to be with, not some whore they've "had" and "told all" about to their friends.

Answer 3

Does she have some cash? Am I going to have to pay for everything all of the time? Does she smile a lot, or is she boring. She better have a personality, or I am losing interest ultra fast! Does she have man hands? If I see a girl with man hands, I'm running for the hills. She better have nice hair, and I'm not talking about facial hair. A nice rack and butt ranks pretty high on the list as well. Try to act like a lady. Girls that burp, fart and cuss are very ghetto, and not at all attractive. Smoking also makes women unattractive. I will not even talk to woman that smoke.

Answer 4

I look for honesty, loyalty and a general loving nature. But everything starts with how she looks because most people dont even find out about the important internal qualities unless they are at least a little attracted to the outside. So dress nice and guys will notice. And different guys are looking for different things in a girls look so you are perfect the way you are, there are guys who will be attracted to you no matter what!
And I date a girl a little, its all in how she treats me. If she is good to me then shes right for me.

Answer 5

I look for a girl who has a beautiful personality a loving and caring person that she is I don't like fake people I just want a girl who will be her self and it's not what's on the out side that counts it's from the inside that counts that's what Iook for in a girl hope this helps answer your question

Answer 6

Haha, you are def. gonna get responses like, "big ****" or "nice ***" or something like that.

But personally, physical assests can only go so far. However, the pretty smile stays in my heart forever.

Then of course is the usual, "great personality, good sense of humor, common interests." Those are the most important.
Confidence is pretty huge too. A lot of girls of confidence issues. If a girl can somehow show that she's proud of who she is, that's freakin hot.

Answer 7

1. hot bod (curves)
2. cute face, long hair
3. nice smile, pretty eyes
4. chemistry (most important, this can't be explained)
5. shared values
6. personality (good attitude not a *****)

Thats what i look for, but just be yourself and somethig will come along when you least expect it.

Answer 8

the eyes are the first thing i notice. but to make me fall for a girl, she has to have a good personality. all those looks aint **** without a little heart behind them.

Answer 9

most guys truely think about looks or sex, but in my thoughts the personality being good is what i like. sometimes people need to try to really see the bright side.

Answer 10

The woman I want in my life may not be a rocket scientist but she is smart and she likes to learn. She is funny and appreciates my crazy sense of humor. Being creative is an extra special bonus and she likes bright colors or at least is able to tolerate them because my life is colorful. She is strong and independent, not some puppy dog that follows me everywhere I go or clings to everything that I do. She has her own interests and hobbies. We may participate in each other’s hobbies at times. For example, she might help decorate one of my robots and I might help her write the script for a dazzling new play.

My girl is sexy and playful. We enjoy making love and we don’t do the same boring thing night after night. We spice things up with creativity and imagination. She’s no prude. She is orgasmic and gets very wet and knows I need my regular dose of pussy juice.

She is open-minded because I am not a boring conservative type of guy and that’s the only way she could stand being with me. She does not mind all of the crazy collections of things I have around my house. She likes most of them.

When I do something special for her it brightens her day and I love that. I sometimes leave her little notes and drawings. I buy flowers just because I feel like it. She doesn’t mind getting gifts when I spontaneously give her something. She knows I’m giving her the gift because I was thinking of her and not because I’m trying to buy her love or bribe her into anything. She doesn’t feel guilty for not getting me a gift because she knows I never expect one but I always appreciate them.

This sexy woman is growth oriented just like I am. Neither of us is perfect nor do we have the slightest idea what perfection is. But our lives get better each year. We may exercise more; we may eat better; we may handle our money better and learn to invest it wisely for our future. She doesn’t sit by the sidelines while I grow. She grows with me. We don’t share all of the same goals but we share some of the important ones. Like wanting a house on a bigger property where we can install a hot tub, do some gardening, bath in the sun naked if we want to because we have plenty of privacy. If I win the lotto she will love the great beachfront property that I buy.

While she knows that I appreciate her input on important decisions she does not insist that I do things her way unless it directly affects her. For example, when I buy a new car she will come with me and give me her opinion but she knows that at the end of the day I will buy the car that I want even if she hates it. And I will do the same with her.

We both hate paying bills and doing chores but we know they are a part of life and she does not laze around the house while I do the dishes. She participates in life’s boring maintenance procedures. She always makes sure to watch when I get on the roof to clean the gutters just in case I fall off.

I am very lucky that she is not easily embarrassed because sometimes I might wear some crazy outfit. She doesn’t run and hide if I choose to get up and dance however I feel like dancing. She doesn’t cringe if I make some smart-*** remark to a rude clerk at the store. She knows I’m a good person and don’t do that very often.

The two us like to eat out and try new restaurants. We also enjoy a home cooked meal and she loves my great BBQ. If she has kids then we include them as often as possible when we go out and often we go out especially for the kids. We like to go to the movies. We like to watch a good movie at home but we are not couch potatoes.

We will go out and catch a rock concert from time to time. She understands that I never buy seats at concerts because she knows I will spend most of my time dancing. She knows I just can’t sit during a concert. We sometimes go to smaller clubs to catch some great music and do some dancing. We like comedy clubs from time to time as well.

During the summer time we take long walks on the beach and she helps me in my quest for the perfect sand dollar. Sometimes I pack my picnic kit full of goodies and we just laze around at the beach watching the ocean roar. On a hot summer night, she likes the romance of looking up at the stars and kissing under the moonlight.

We like to go to Great America and Marine World and ride the roller coasters. We enjoy the pedal boats at Loch Lomond even though the next day our legs are sore. We sometimes go bowling and roller-skating. We are not bored stiff when we visit a museum and we love all the colorful fish when we visit an aquarium.

These are just a few of the many reasons why I choose to be with her.

Answer 11

Face and boobs! Personality is good but the first thing is more important. Then comes nice, funny, friendly.