Well there is this guy that i like alot and he is friends with my friends so we are around each other every weekend for the last 4 weeks and he has never spoken to me or anything but i truly like him and i am way to shy to talk to him.. is that a sign that he don't like me since he doesn't even realize that i am there.. but we got drunk like 7 months back and tried havin sex but i didn't go well on his behalf could that be the reason that he is avoiding me?? help me please!!!! i need some answers i answer everyone else ?'s but no one answers mine
2007-03-08 14:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is just as shy as you are. 7 months ago when the sex didn't go to well on his part, damage some ego there. He is embarassed and he might think that you think he is an idoit. I know you don't think that, but he might not know. You are not talking to him because you are shy...he might think that you don't want to talk to him because of that night. remember..he is a MAN and they view thing through one part of their body. :-) Try talking to him this weekend. Strike up a causal conversation when you are with friends. Don't be too shy sweetie......Hang in there!!
2007-03-08 15:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look most of the time if a guy doesnt talk back when getting a flirt they are just nervous. but in your situation im thinking he couldnt get it up, maybe hes embaressed. but hell ive been so drunk before i told my girlfriend if she could get it up she could have it. if you like him dont be shy, why would you. if you want something go get it, you wont ever get **** out of this life by not doing anything about what you want. you need to take the initative here and loosen him up, let him know all is cool and propose another try only sober. good luck.
2007-03-08 23:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by lurch298 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just thinks it is awkward because of your "almost one-night stand-ish" thing you had... if you like him and you want something more then you need to Talk To Him about it... it doesn't do you any good to sit and wonder and drive yourself crazy.. because just from that info. no one can have any clue what He is thinking. talk to him.. the worst that could happen is rejection.. but at least you won't have to keep wondering and you will know. you could be surprised, because if you let him know how you feel he could be feeling the same way but you not putting off signs you like him so he didn't think you did. talk to him before it's too late. don't have regrets, just do it, and Good Luck!! best wishes to ya!
2007-03-08 23:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out and see what he says. You never know until you try and if he isn't interested then get over it and move on to the next crush at least you can say you tried.
2007-03-08 23:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by alana t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things didn't go well then that could be part of the reason, or he maybe shy or not interested.
bump into him, make some kind of smart alec remark, if he just tosses you a look or ignores you then he is not interested at all.
2007-03-08 23:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him, not necessarily about this, but just start up a conversation with him, get him laughing. let him see that you dont think its a big deal. act like it never happened. maybe he will lighten up.
2007-03-08 23:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by curiousin08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that might be. just ask him nicley, i had that problem with a boy i liked alot. guys can hold grudges but if u talk to them nice, they come around
2007-03-08 23:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by shalini s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hes probably embarrased if it didnt go well on his behalf
y dont u just try to have it again. as long as its not some one night stand thing
2007-03-08 23:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by in despair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb he is jus feelin the same way u r. guys can feel shy also.
2007-03-08 23:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by flash_am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be, but yeah try and avoid him also, have some pride sweetie
2007-03-08 23:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋