ok, so here's the deal. i was just friends with this really amazing girl. and then we started out to be really great friends. and soon enough, we we're best friends who talked ALOT by textingg. (but i already met her) and thenn i asked out her on valentine's day with all this romantic stuff (humongous teddy bear, etc.) then she hugged me and that day was really really great. then on the next day she wore the jewelry i gave her and i was happy, but now after a few weeks i feel like each day we're drifting far and more apart. and i feel like she's always flirting with another guy right in front of me. and there's this other guy who won't leave her alone and is always teasing her and doing THIS right in front of me, and he's my very good friend! but like i don't want to break up with her. iloveher SOO much, i can't even describe my love for her. and i don't ever want to leave each other, however she's going to a different school. im so sad and confused. what should i do? please help me.
2007-03-08 14:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her a note and say that you noticed that you've been drifting apart. tell her that you love her so much but wonder if she feels the same way towards you. if not then say it might be best to break up.
i know it's hard but sometimes you just have to do it.
plus... you've only been going out since V-day... how much can you really love her?
2007-03-08 14:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is she really your girlfriend? From the beginning of your question, you never mention you guys actually getting together, just being really great friends. Maybe she doesn't know it. Talk to her. You need to get to the point and see what she's thinking. She maybe thinking you guys are great friends too and nothing else. Hope this helps.
The Syko Ward
2007-03-08 22:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like infatuation, you need to move on and find someone that will appreciate the things you do for her and not flirt with guys in front of you, much less your friends. I think you are waiting your time and and are going to end up heartbroken
2007-03-08 22:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel, the feelings might not be mutual. If they are not, you have to learn to let go. It is impossible to have a good relationship with someone you are crazy about if they kind of like you. There will be others no matter how hard it seems to let go now.
2007-03-08 22:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by SexySlim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all, act like a guy and get your emotions straight. IF you feel doubted and unlove, why should u be giving so much love and not receiving any? Talk to her and tell her wat is the deal. I think your too good enough for her and deserve better.
2007-03-08 22:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by taty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up with her but b4 u do that you should find out wut's really going on with ur gf and ur friend so u noe wut's going on. CUz u never noe u might find a better girl
2007-03-08 22:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her about it and tell her. then talk to your friend because if he was a true friend then he would back off. maybe he just thinks that he is being friendly with her and doesn't realize that it seems like flirting to you talk to them both
2007-03-08 22:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her iam sure she will understand i know how it feel man i had the same problem before.
2007-03-08 22:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and see whats going down
2007-03-08 22:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her something special and tell her that you want to know what is on her mind
2007-03-08 22:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Aphrodite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋