..this guy that i like is out of my league. he is very outgoing, and has lots of friends and is popular. meanwhile im very shy. i have friends but not a lot. this guy flirts with me a lot though. like trying to start conversation, and making me laugh and getting my attention. i feel like i have no chance with him though for some reason. what do you think? i have a problem with being confident as well.
2007-03-08 14:29:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well start off by trying to be more confident. try initiate convo with him and try to make him laugh. if you become more outgoing with him, theres a much greater chance that he'll like you and possibly ask you out.
good luck
2007-03-08 14:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my Lord...you have all you need to know right there. He is obviously interested in you. Don't worry about the outcome. He may stay interested after getting to know you better, or he may lose interest....depends on what he's looking for. Right now he likes what he knows of you and you should give him the opportunity of getting to know you more. Let him decide if you're out of your league with him. If so...then it's not meant to be and you will eventually find someone for you. Just take things slowly and let things unfold on their own accord. Remember...he's paying you some attention for some reason. He sees something in you that he wants to be around. Appreciate this and show him the same attention.
2007-03-08 14:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by BRAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give yourself reasons as to why a guy doesn't want you. Just accept the fact that he's acting like he does.
Because he is outgoing, he just might be attracted to the fact your personality isn't competing with his for attention. When he flirts with you smile at him and act like you're enjoying the attention. When he tries to talk to you respond. You don't have to be a super extrovert to let a guy know you're interested. He should be pursuing you anyway. Change your attitude, and get your man!
2007-03-08 14:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have confident in yourself first. You may be surprised if he tell you that he like you. But that is not the important thing. The important thing is that you must have confidence in your relationship. if you don't have the confidence in the relationship, things will never work well for both of you. Give youraelf and the guy a chance to work things out
2007-03-08 16:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised. The popular, athletic guy with all the friends in my high school ended up marrying the quiet scholar. They have two kids and are still married many years later. He liked a woman with brains
2007-03-08 14:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by kadel 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get out there & make friends. "Opposites attract"
think you're not confident enough- he probably has enough confidence for the both of you.
think U can't make conversation- he'll probably make conversation for the both of you.
laugh- let him make U laugh, U'll start relaxing. when U relax, U have a better of letting your personality come out & letting your personality make up or follow up the conversation. just try.
2007-03-08 14:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by carbazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump smiley. The league is based on how hard you play.
2007-03-08 14:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is out of an attractive girls league..
2007-03-08 14:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!! beleive in yourself
2007-03-08 14:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋