if your boyfriend of six year tells you he need 3 to 5 months space from you what should I do?

Question

He claimjs that I call him to much and im getting on his nerves because I 'm always calling him just to let him know that I'm think about him but he said he need time apart and he loves me but he needs some more time and more time with his 5 kids. and to think about our relationship and that it no one else help!

Answer 1

if the male was to do that to the female he could be thrown in jail for "STOCKING"!

Answer 2

Well six years is a long time, however, maybe he's realized that he needs space which is not a bad thing. You may need time too to re-think things (his five kids) I would give him his space and stopppp calling that's the worse. A red flag is that there is a specific time frame attached why 3-5 months and not a 7months is there someone else within this time but that's not for you to fiqure out but don't sit around and wait for him to get his life together b/c that may never happen!

Answer 3

Since it has been six years I wouldnt just cool it off just like that. Give him a week or two to calm down and think about things. Guys tend to blame the partner when in fact its the other things in their lives are the real problem ( ie: problems at work or family). Maybe when you are apart he will miss you and relise that he really needs you. As they say - absence makes the heart grow fonder!

Answer 4

Damn! I honestly don't believe in breaks first of all. If someone needs a break I don't think they would give a time. (3-5 months) If he wants time off give it to him, but don't expect him to come back . . .and if he does learn from your mistakes. Stop calling so much. Sometimes a relationship needs space for you to miss each other and desire each other more. Good Luck girl.

Answer 5

Well, you will have to give him space whether you like it or not. If you refuse, this will make him push himself away from you. If you do, there might always be 2 possibilities. All you can do is just give him a break at this point and once he comes to his senses hell realise how much he misses you. If thats what he wants, then fine, just go along with it. If it doesnt work out, then move on. Good luck

Answer 6

my ex decided he wanted space from me after 2 years, it turned out longer than we thought it would but i think its for the better still. I did get another boyfriend for now just to test out other options and everything, you know to make sure i dont miss out on anything. At the moment he wants me back, but im making him wait....i dont know what will happen but i think that your boyfriend can still love you through all that and you can still love him, time apart can be a good thing it will let you find out what you really want

Answer 7

I hate to tell you this, but you are going to have to face it sooner or later. He's just not that in to you anymore. It's over. He has 5 kids and after 6 years he suddenly wants to spend more time with them? Don't call him. Don't ask why. It's just over. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it means it's over. Start taking care of yourself and go have fun. Best wishes to you.

Answer 8

After age 18, do not spend more than 2 - 3 yrs. in a relationship
without marriage...Do not have kids out of wedlock..Get a good
Pre-nup before marriage...
Sounds like you need to start looking for a real man to marry.

Answer 9

Get rid of him, he's getting tired of u now which means he'll get tired of you later on, worse after you are married, then how are u gonna deal with this, 3 to 5 month of space is not gonna work then is it ?? Let him live his life with his kids, dont get involved drama filled life......................

Answer 10

wow i wouldnt let him have 3-5 months off,if he loves u he wont leave u and say something like dat,u need to put im in check

Answer 11

Sounds like he wants to end it without hurting you. I'd say you give him his space forever.