Have you ever figured out who your ex boyfriend likes, and then you go and find the girl he likes and you start talking to her, cuz you want to be friends with her, bcuz you think if the two of you are friends, you will be able to figure out what your ex is up to? I'm trying to do that right now bcuz I still like my ex... but the girl he likes isnt really talkative, cuz I ask her something, and she like says,"Yeah" and NEVER talks. lol. Have you ever caught yourself doing this?
2007-03-08 14:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only reason why I'm doing this is cuz I want to keep a close eye on my ex... I need a connection to do that, and I figured that I would be friends with the girl he likes so that way, she can tell me what hes been acting like around her or w/e.
2007-03-08 14:33:54 · update #1
No, it's best to move on
2007-03-08 14:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people might use that nasty word " sicko" but that's a little over doing it. twisted does come to mind. what you really want to do is things that get you away from thinking about someone you can't have. not things that will make you think more about them. that's how stalkers are born. I would think that astronaut nowak had a lot of your thoughts going through her head before she drove across country in a diaper. and you will never be normal until you learn to shake the motivation to stalk people you can't have, that pattern will follow you all your life. learn to cast it off now so you can be free of your demons. you don't own your ex b/f. he came to you of his own free will and he left of the same free will, you could no more force him to get invloved with you the first time than you can the second time, ask yourself, would you be inclined to love someone that has done the things you confess to doing? how can you expect anyone to love you then? are those actions of someone you would trust your feeling to. I bet you wouldn't want a twisted chick like yourself chasing you now would you? honestly, when the little head starts thinking for the big head, it is easy to cast all concern about sanity to the wind, but even an old bastar.d like me would have trouble hooking up with a person so insane . I would fear you would go nowak on someone I cared about.
2007-03-08 22:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have a higher self esteem. If he doesn't like me, I would go to those who likes me and not getting together with the one he likes to "copy" her. People should like us for what we are, doesn't matter how hard you try, you will never be her. If you want to win this game... I guess you should try be a better person, a person better than her and most people he knows. Somebody that can win his admiration. People falls in love for what they admire, sometimes beauty, sometimes success, sometimes money, sometimes smartness...If I were on your place, I would let it go. This strategy is very good for work. If someone got the position you were fighting over, I would agree with you getting closer to the person who won the position, to improve your skills and gain more success but I don't think the same can be done to personal's matters. We should treat our personal life different than our business life, if you are not planning on make it (your love life) your way of living, if you know what I mean. Good Luck !
2007-03-08 22:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird
2007-03-08 22:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by AX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no thats kind of creepy you should try and find a new guy sweetie cause obviously your ex already has.
2007-03-08 22:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by sparkle_babi86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a case like yours and that is not gonna be well taken by him, you shouldnt do that anymore, he is going to think you are manipulative and then he is going to heat you, for not respecting his decision of being with someone else
2007-03-08 22:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgretchem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i haven't but she probably knows what you are doing and doesn't want you to. Just let her know that you still have feelings for him and maybe things will work out!
2007-03-08 23:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like something I'd do though.
2007-03-08 22:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant say as though I have
2007-03-08 22:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i stay away, cause once im done im done.
2007-03-08 22:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋