2007-03-08 14:25:25 · 12 answers · asked by curiousin08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've been married for three years I'd say your communication with your husband is your main problem.He should be the one your telling this to as he's the one that can make it better.There are lots of people in the same boat that just don't talk about things like that and there relationship suffers.Tell your man what you need and see what happens.The way I see it you got nothing to lose and everything to gain.Maybe watching a porno movie would help also.Good luck
2007-03-08 14:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by sasyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, find a way to help your husband to fulfill your needs. If you love him and explain how you feel, I'm sure he'll do anything to make your sex life more exciting. If you just want to take the easy road out and cheat, then at least give your hubby enough respect and get out of the marriage first.
2007-03-08 22:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should find someone to fulfill your needs, and guess what he is in bed with you at night. You are married so you have to train the poor guy, you might find he has hidden talents. First let him know what turns you on and give him lots of encouragement.
2007-03-08 22:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an idiot? a moron? Your sex life is Blahh because you don't talk with him. I didn't say talk TO him.
And, for some reason, he isn't talking to you.
Damn, but you've got to open your heart to the man. He's your other half, your man. Don't think that sex is what matters most. Rolling over at night and crying because he looks so innocent when sound asleep.
That's when you learn how lucky you are for him to share his life with an idiot like you. You don't know what needs are yet.
Maybe he needs help and is scared to death.
2007-03-08 22:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness no! cheating is NOT the right answer. If you are having problems or its just boring... try new things. Look up positions online, (my husband does) ... my husband and I go to the adult store for toys and intimate objects to try. Some people find it disturbing and gross. I did, but when i tried it, i really enjoyed it. There is SOO much there to experiment with. See if hes up to it.
2007-03-08 22:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by jessnclh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Cheating isn't the answer, it just makes you what you don't want to be.
Tell him how you feel and even more important show him. If that doesn't work, you need to divorce him and move on. In that order, without cheating on him. Otherwise you will regret it.
2007-03-08 22:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up ma? dont go find nobody babygirl, talk to your hubby about it. he needs to know how u feel. yal r married, yal can find a way to make it happen the way u want ma. stick it out. train him if u have to, so he knows how u wanna be satisfied. i'm married to and u should talk and solve.....peace ma....
2007-03-08 22:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by OG_BIGMOE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of singles and dating. Buy a copy of the "Kama Sutra"
2007-03-08 22:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's only going to cause more problems, why not talk to your husband about it, suggest some new things.
if he isn't open to talking, you could always try surprising him with something new one night or bring home some games to open new doors
2007-03-08 22:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a porn store with ur love one and find some stuff out
2007-03-08 22:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋