Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out
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He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?
2007-03-08 14:22:45 · 7 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?
2007-03-08 14:23:45 · update #1
Don't call or contact him in any way. Let him hang. If you see him at the gym don't initiate any conversation with him. Let him come to you.
2007-03-08 14:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are only two things that could be going on with this guy.
First, he might be painfully shy with some kind of social anxiety. This happens to a lot of people, they can be nice in person but once there is pressure to go on a date they cannot function.
Second, he is just a jerk stringing you along until he is ready for you. Either way I think you need to keep looking and find someone who is a better fit.
2007-03-08 22:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, it sounds like he probably WAS interested in you. my bet is that he might have met or rekindled a flame with some other woman between the time that he gave you his # and you calling him. sometimes a lot can happen in a day - let alone 3 weeks.
don't waste anymore of your precious energy being sad, confused and in wonder about him. you doing big thangs with yourself, so move on. the ocean is big! i'm curious to know what happens, so keep us posted!
2007-03-08 23:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by krazysmart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses with the guy from the gym. He does not seem that interested. There will be a different guy who will MAKE time to be with you.
2007-03-08 22:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Laura H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, i hate to say it but he's probably blowing you off cuz he has someone else. don't give him another chance. find someone who wants to make time to hang out with you and not only when he has the time!
2007-03-08 22:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Deni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he's either married or living with someone.
2007-03-08 22:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he changed his mind once you started wanting him...maybe he feels only likes what he cant have
2007-03-08 22:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by tiff_n_a00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋