There are these girls at my school that sit by my sister. All of them r nice except one, and she puts her lunchbag down next to her (to like hint at me that she doesn't want me to sit with her) so I wont sit with her so I go over to the losers table and sit there with these two girls one of who's never smiled a day in her life the other who is going to be put on a depression medication. I think the girl who doesn't like me, doesn't like me 'cause I flirted with her ex, but he is my crush and he flirted with me first. So I hate being embarrassed in front of my crush sitting at what I call the losers table. i have to say I am way prettier than her. Could it be that she is jealous that I flirted with her ex and am way prettier than her????
2007-03-08 14:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by Know-It-All or Nothing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS IT IS A SMALL CHRISTIAN SCHOOL THAT IS LIKE EIGHT GIRLS.
2007-03-08 14:23:50 · update #1
Why don't you just sit by your sister? That girl isn't anyone special for you to be worrying about. Not to cause problems between you two, but it's stupid for her to be mad when her and her ex aren't together. Maybe she feels you shouldn't date her ex if you two are friends. Really though, It's not like she's in a position to tell you you can't sit at the same table. If she doesn't like you, you shouldn't care. She's not doing anything for you to stress over her. You should pull her to the side...along...and ask her is there something wrong or does she have a problem with you (not with an attitude).
2007-03-08 14:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by soaddicted2this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prettier is relative first off. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Many men would disagree with my opinion that Paris Hilton is Ugly, and many don't think Sandra Bullock is the ultimate babe, while I do beleive she is. It does sound like a jealousy thing and a bit of spite. As for the 'losers table' thing those girls may or may not really be losers. Many people going through school get stuck in such classifications when they are not deserved. Needing medication is just a fact for some people, and some people don't smile because they do not have expressive faces. get to know them first. Most of the real losers I remember from school were the ones that were 'popular' to the general school body. Losers who thought it made them look cool to pick on those who had any difference from the plastic lives they led. Also if someone is trying to keep you from sitting next to someone you want to sit by you can always just pick up their lunch bag and move it so you can sit down... It's called dominance. Pack and herd animals use such tactics. People are herd animals. I figured that out early and had issues with it because I have always been dominant even though I was not conscious of it early on. Kids years older take ofense when a younger kid shows he or she is totally confident of their place. Since the fights with bigger kids of my early years I have learned that just because it feels normal to sit where I want i always ask others if they wish to have a spot first in case they need it for some reason. Consideration of others has always ben important, but adding the humbleness to my dominance has made me even stronger of character. Take the spot you want, though don't just leave people with the stigma of 'Loser' unless they really deserve it. People who are not considerate, or are rude or cruel deserve it.
2007-03-08 22:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first girls don't want you to sit with them but the others do, then which ones are really the "losers?" She may be jealous that you flirted with her bf but if you cared about people being upset at you then you wouldn't be flirting with their boyfriend's. Also if you go around thinking that yo are "way prettier than" other people then of course they won't like you.
2007-03-08 22:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, they arent losers, they are just different from you....but thats besides the point. it seems like just high school drama. dont bother with it. if they are ex's keep on flirtin girl. she still has the sense that he is her's and who ever tries to take him, she will despise....until she finds another guy. you can sit where ver you want. kindly ask somebody else if they could switch you seats cause you dont want stuff to start between you and her. if they dont, well sit next to the girl anyway, what is she gonna do tht cant get her in trouble
2007-03-08 22:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by thesoccerone27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are any other table with one or two people at it, sit there. Or if you are brave enough , you could go and sit next to your crush. If these don't work or you just don't want to, You could try talking to that girl, who doesn't want you to sit next to her, and see why she doesn't want you to.
Tell your crush why you have to sit at the loosers table, and if he really cares about and understands you, he wont care, and should understand.
2007-03-08 22:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just way jealous of you and you just need to show her who is boss and either go sit where you want or date her ex, but don't use him to get back at her only date him if you really like him. Good luck :0)
2007-03-08 22:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Can't get enough volleyball! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a tough dilemma, maybe you should sit next to your sister.
FYI: It is nice that the other two girls you chose to call losers that is so shallow of you.
2007-03-08 22:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont start this kind of stuff. its so stupid. why do you sit at "the losers tables" GET UP!! and move and walk with other people. duhh.
2007-03-08 22:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by dragonflyxfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya thats probley it but it could be that she doesn;t want ur friends sister siting with her......why do u sit with losers there is more friends to hang around with...
2007-03-08 22:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋