I'm in Jr. high and this girl and i r going out but when i sit with her at lunch it like akward and we never hardley talk we like each other alot but we just started going out can yall help me find something too talk to her about or something to do i really need alot of help !!!
2007-03-08 14:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by lilwhiteboy93@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find something to talk about. I'm sure you guys have something to talk about. I think you guys are just nervous, and that you guys like each other so much that you don't want to say the wrong thing and think that the other person won't like you anymore. But it's nothing to worry about. Dating is like a special time to get to know another person really well so take this time and get to know her and let her do the same. Don't be afraid to be who you are and don't be afraid to say what's on your mind.
2007-03-08 14:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by hello_goodbye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That awkwardness never goes away either :) just keep it simple and lighthearted. Talk about things you have in common. Music, sports plans for the weekend..anything. Whatever attracted you to each other is a good start. Don't stress about it because that only makes it worse. Being funny helps too! Girls love a guy who can make them laugh! Good luck!
2007-03-08 22:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk has killed a lot of good relationships, you don't need to talk, you just need to get comfortable in a public environment, take a couple pencils and some paper with you and play some tic tac toe, get a scramble magazine and look for the words, anything to get your mind off of what others will think about you. when people see you paying more attention to each other, they will get the hint and give you your space. guys don't talk to girls, they only listen.
2007-03-08 22:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other then you must want to know more about each other. Ask each other questions: what, where, when, how & why.
The questions can relate to anyone either of you know to start, so there's no reason to be shy. It will get easier as you go and you will learn about each other even more.
2007-03-08 22:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys hand out outside of school more then you might have more to talk about at lunch...you have to make the first moves since your the guy...YOU need to start talking to her...
2007-03-08 22:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Eat your veggies! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a problem talking about anything, then maybe you should stop seeing her. talking to someone you are interested in should come naturally.
2007-03-08 22:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by i don't know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how her day is so far.Then ask her if anything interresting happened latley.then ask her what types of music she likes,fav food...and whatever it takes to get her to talk about herself..listen
2007-03-08 22:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by blondieb5835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋