she has made me sick?

Question

4 months ago i told her i liked her,then a week after that she wanted to just be friends,right now we arent talking at all because we kinda got in a fight,and i dont think she is attracted to me anymore.She has been treating me like dirt and im kinda tired of it so i think im going to move on.But its really hard for me because i really like this girl.Anyway,im trying to move on and like another girl and im finally starting to get over her.This new girl that i like,i think liked a boy last week but he told her he didnt like her(i think im not sure).What should i do,i mean she is pretty cool and has flirted with me in the past by calling my name to walk with her in the hall,her saying im the hottest guy in the grade.But i can't tell if they are flirting because thats what the other girl did and treated me like dirt when i fell for her : \. So i need advice,she is in most of my classes.

its even hard for me to write this because i feel like im betraying the other girl because i liked her soooo much but i feel like she likes sumone else because she flirts with him alot

Answer 1

go for it it sounds like you really need to get a girl that cares so be careful but it's one girl out of millions that can hurt u so approch with care. she's flirting that just girlz she calls you hot she likes you but doesn't know anything about u be be able to comment on your personality so give her some thing like when you talk to her next in a group jump in there and have your say about what u think and give a reason if she is a girl who respects u she will agree with what u say or will make a possitive coment on what u said . go for it have fun

Answer 2

Move on with the new girl, the other girl is bad news. Just move slowly, don't be in such a rush, u've got ur whole life ahead of u. U sound like the kind a guy that falls too hard too quick, slow down, get to know her better/more, find out if/what u have in common; hang out for awhile b4 u ask her 4 a date. U know, hang out w/ a group, go to the mall, play videos, etc,etc. Just slooowww dooowwwnn. OK? Good Luck

Answer 3

I am much older then you ,well lets just say I have been out of school for a long time.But I still remember what it was like walking down the halls and liking someone .If you do as I say you won't go wrong just ask my son who takes my advise.First thing don't I repeat don't let on that you like her keep her at arms length when or if she talks to you act like you don't care what she is saying.when in a group and she is there ignore her. I no this all sounds like bad advise but when you ignore a female she will come after you that much more.
If you do what i said you won't go wrong just don't let on to anyone to what you are doing.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Well hon, if we want love we must put ourselves out there. Sometimes we get hurt sometimes it works out. Ask her out and deal with the rest when it comes up. Put the past where it belongs. Fear can keep us from the more pleasant things in life, this new girl is just that an opportunity for happiness. Whether it works out or not it will work out in the end. We learn from each experience. Figure out what you learned from the last girl and move on

Answer 5

First of all, what she does with other guys has NO EFFECT on whether she's attracted to you or not. So realize that as long as you ARE attractive to her, she'll like you. Right? Yeah... Easy. This works on about ANY girl so use it on BOTH. Then you have the power to choose one later. Nice.

Now how to make her like you MORE.

-Lean back and be comfortable around her like a best friend. Bust on her like mad and make her laugh at herself. I'm assuming you know how to do this.

-Keep assuming she likes you TOO MUCH and say things like "I don't care how much stuff you buy me, I'm NOT that easy".

-If she hits you, that's great. Say "You love me". When she responds, say "Like a little girl on the playground hitting a boy she likes... you love me... and it's OBVIOUS".

-Get used to touching her hair and stuff. Whack her with small things that don't hurt her, but make you seem like a teacher punishing the bad student. By having her used to getting her hair touched by you, you can move even closer to her (INTO KISSING RANGE).

-If she compliments you, be like "Yeah... I know" in a very serious voice.

This is a LOT, but it will get you past the initial judging round and you can do the rest on your own. You're smart and will be okay.

Franklin

Answer 6

OKay dude! Just drop the chick! She'll want you want you when she thinks you've moved on. Flirt with other girls! DOn't talk to that new girl yet. You shouldn't get into new relationships when you still aren't over the old one. So...flirt around, make her jealous! If she doesn't seem to care THEN move on to someone else who will. Girls hate seeing a guy they liked with someone else all happy and what not. It makes them want them back!

Answer 7

Girls don't know any more than you do, she is being a jerk and you should be doing exactly what you are doing moving on. Have fun with the new girl and when that one is done move on to another, that’s just the way it is. Just have fun while you can because it gets real serious soon enough. Good luck...

Answer 8

Be yourself. That's my first and most important piece of advice. Once you get to know this other girl--if you still decide you like her after that--then let her know.
Anything like this is going to be a hit-and-miss type thing. You can't ever be sure that your heart is not going to be hurt in relationships with the opposite sex. However, that should not deter anyone from pursuing friendships with people they like.
Blessings to you!

Answer 9

Focus on school. You got the rest of your life to find a woman & all that other crap. Young girls don't know what they want. They mostly care about what kind of car you drive & how much money you spend on them. I know from experience. In time you'll meet the right one & it will be great! I wish I knew that 20 years ago. Someday you'll be glad I told you that if you take my advice.

Answer 10

Deep stuff can't go that far ,but i can try just tell her you like her so if she likes you it's way easier than crushing on her forever.And for the girl who treated you like dirt can go to h*$l.Because that is just like so mean!