2007-03-08 14:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by ethie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is great, at least you all know each other. There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone needs someone, history doesn't dictate who that someone will be. Enjoy the moment and love your daughter, it is her big day not for the family to ruin quibbling over the past.
2007-03-08 14:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arrive on time, and leave as soon as the cake is cut.
Give her a nice amount of cash in an envelope, have her open your gift first, and then make a quiet exit.
This is your Daughter's day not yours.
*this is why there are 3 showers!!!
one side of the family, friends, co-workers, the other side of the family.
Be tolerant.
Dress so that you will blend in and not stand out.
Be a good guest!!!!
Who's giving the shower, if you are, don't invite her, unless your daughter asks you to. Be polite and quiet.
No nasty remarks. this is her day, the brides, not the mother's!
if she's giving the shower, then arrive at the given time, and leave as soon as she opens your gift. duck out quietly.
2007-03-08 22:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? She is still your daughter, from the sounds of it your stepdaughter, and you should come to the wedding shower! Who cares if her father is married to your husband's ex-wife? I wouldn't! Just pretend she, he, whatever, isn't what they are! She is your daughter!
2007-03-08 22:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by LittleLucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go wrong with class. Class is holding your head high, not taking offense at anything done or said, and treating everyone with kindness and courtesy. That will get you through just about any situation. It might also help to remind yourself that nothing, including a wedding ceremony and reception, lasts forever. Good luck!
2007-03-08 22:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-best friend's daughter's father is married to her ex-fiancé's ex-wife. And my daughter's father was engaged to my husband's ex-wife. Does any of this count?
2007-03-08 22:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pooky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you askin
if you are asking if you should invite them
if you can it would be best for the family
time to grow up smile and get through it for your daughter
2007-03-08 22:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how upset you feel. I'd try to stop that before it starts. A lot of drama will go down with them.
2007-03-08 22:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keeping it in the family
2007-03-08 22:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by iseemen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you be a little more specific
2007-03-08 22:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
annnddd...
2007-03-08 22:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋