Ok, so here's the details. I am in junior high in grade 7 and I have this huge crush on this girl but she seems to not be paying attention to me, I just wanna be friends with her, not too personal, just like uh friends. Today we had to choose books and she realy wanted this book and I ran to get that book, so I told her hey i am that book but she didn't pay attenion but when somebody else ( a friend of hers) told her that I had the book. SO she practically comes begging to me to give her the book and take her book that she had from the same series. So i OBVIOUSLY say fine and she's like THX so much! then she sorta hugs me!! Now what du i do, to become friends!!!
2007-03-08 13:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh ya and one thing she is most of the time with her friends so it's kind of hard and EMBARASSING to talk in forn of them!
2007-03-08 14:02:42 · update #1
strike a conversation,talk to her,small talks,no "com on" moves,first make friendship,let her get comfortable with you
2007-03-08 14:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really sound like she is receptive to being friends with you if she blew you off to begin with. As far as the hug goes, I wouldn't take it for anything else but she got her way. Being friends with someone should come naturally. Don't waste your time wanting to be friends with someone that doesn't share the same feelings.
2007-03-08 21:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to play it kool, go and talk to her, ask her how the book was or something... try to think of something funny to get her to laugh or just be yourself and talk to her and if you can ask if she would like to hang out sometime....once you can get into a conversation things should go ok from there
2007-03-08 21:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with her a little more. maybe joke around with her. you will never officially become friends, but you will in a way. maybe even someday she'll want you as a boyfriend.
2007-03-08 21:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you want to be is friends,,,treat her like you do all the rest of your friends,,,as you get to know one another it may become more,,,but don't rush it
2007-03-08 21:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to talk to her sometimes, talk about anything, u'd be surprised to see that u 2 might have something in common. jut be urself. beleive me. this works!!
2007-03-08 21:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!?!?!?!......................... Ok well just talk to her, see if you can sit by her in class and myabe start a convo about something in class or something she likes, do some HW on her, see what things she likes and talk to her about things that she is intrested in.
2007-03-08 21:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wreckless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to think about girls and i think she doesn't want anything to do with you
2007-03-08 21:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Aphrodite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋