do you think people should wait to have sex until they're married?

Answer 1

YES.

This is how I feel about it ...

You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.

You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.

If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.

Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.

I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend of a little over a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...

Answer 2

I think people should wait until their old enough and if you can wait till your married that you need to remember if you choose to have sex with someone you may create a baby and if you are not ready to have a baby with that person then should you be having sex with that person
Sex is a bond between people and it if you share that with the person you share the rest of your life with it is a wonderful thing

Answer 3

YES YES YES YES YES YES AND GOD YES!

People are so stuck up on the whole "sex" thing that it takes away from the best sex ever; MARITAL SEX!

I was one of the losers who 'lost it' before I got married and I regret it immensely! Now my marriage (7 years!) is fantastic and it's the best sex, love making in the world. There's something so different about it. When you have sex without marriage, that's all it is. Just sex. When you get married you have that wonderful person you've loved for years who still looks at your like he/she did when they first met you. You're emotions are full of memories of this person and then you're so intimate that the sex becomes something so much more than a physical act. It becomes a truly awesome experience.

Trust me, ask anyone who's has A GOOD MARRIAGE. They'll tell you the same. If you ask advice from this forum, most losers on here are single and will disagree. But the one's who've gone thru it, will tell you pretty much the same.

Good luck and God bless!

Answer 4

Yes, actually. Sex can lead to pregnancy, which isn't very fun for a single person. Condoms won't always help, they can break. So therefore, no sex is safe sex. Also, whenever you have sex before marriage, you run the risk that the person will not stay committed to you, and that you will live the rest of your life ridden of your virginity. However, when you're married to someone you truly love, and the two of you are committed to each other, it's very appropriate.

Answer 5

there are a number of people who're waiting to be married in the previous being intimate with their companion. this could be a sturdy factor! What many people do isn't compromise the purity of the relationship by ability of putting up limitations, and by ability of no longer attempting to electrify the situation by ability of being on my own in an intimate placing. Meditating on keen to have intercourse instead of questioning correct to the exhilaration of the 2d while it is going to likely be bliss by way of fact they waited. this is form of a runner who trains, pass in the process the soreness to win the gold medel. interior the tip of the race this is all properly worth it and the exhilaration of the prize is effective. carry on, my chum, you would be so chuffed you probably did and you will see the prize you so sacrificed to realize.

Answer 6

Yeah, and for a lot of reasons.

For example, you run little to no risk of giving your loved one an STD. You do not form unnecessary emotional attachments with people that you may later regret.

People who wait till marriage to have sex do not have to worry about wondering if their partner is comparing them to someone else.

People who wait till marriage to have sex are on the same ability level and grow together in their sexuality and sex activities, which may mean their having a stronger bond through their shared experience, and they do not have to worry about not performing up to the other persons expectations.

That's just to name a few.

Answer 7

Yes. It's highly unlikely in certain cases depending on your age or maturity during certain periods of time that you'll stay with your 'man'. I am aware of people who sleep with almost every boyfriend they have that lasts a certain period of time. It's somewhat of a casual thing. If it's so casual then how is it special?

Then you have to think of how many people the other person may have slept with. Then you might have to figure that if they're sleeping with you who else is out there.

Just thank the government you need a blood test before marriage.... beware the STD's.

Answer 8

i think its very important and i will do whatever i can to live by this rule (its a rule to me,not saying to anyone else). I`m 21 now and its going OK. sometimes i get tired of explaining my bf why i dont want to have sex. i do all the other stuff in bed and i think that he is satisfied sexually, i am satisfied, who cares there is no intercourse??? ive recently heard that Jessica Simpson was a virgin when she married Nick Lachey. They`ve been going out for 5 years too! so,i think i will look up to that couple

Answer 9

That's a big 10-4! If you have sex before your married how do you know your going to be with that person forever? If y'all spilt up, who's going to watch the kids? If you have sex too young, how your going to support a family? You can mess-up your life like that and you'll regert it for life! It's best and wait until after your married so that way you know your with the right person. You'll know he'll be with you. This is why you don't wanna have sex until after married. If you do, it'll haunt you for life. It's best to wait until after your married.

Answer 10

I don't know about anyone else but I do it saves you a lot of hassle in the long run like for instance what if the girl gets pregnant is the man ready to support a family probuly not and or what if you two decide that you don't love each other anymore and you break up than what happens?

Answer 11

It's up to the individual. Honestly, I don't plan to wait to have sex until I'm married; I'm okay with it either way, just as long as I'm in a relationship. Other people prefer to wait until marriage for religious or moral purposes. I say, whenever you're comfortable with it, go ahead; just make sure you're not doing it for the wrong reasons.