okay so theres this guy i meet online and he wants to hook up
but im a minor and his not
but i like him
so what sould i do
2007-03-08 13:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by miss kris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first you ask yourself, "why is he not with someone his own age?"
It's very romantic to think that he was just waiting for you - but really, anyone who is an adult (and "not a minor" is an adult) should be responsible and honorable enough to realize that it's both illegal (very illegal) and wrong to pursue a relationship with someone who's a minor.
Next, you remember that people are rarely as they are represented online. You only know what he's said - and have no way to know if what he's said is true.
Let's assume (and this is a big assumption) that he's exactly as he says he is and you like him. How do you feel about him being in prison? When (not "if") word gets out that he's "hooking up" with a minor, that is where he will go.
What would he say if you said that you'd thought about it, and you just weren't comfortable meeting him and would have to wait until you were an adult? Would he be willing to honor your decision and wait - without pressuring you down the line to change your mind?
Sorry to say, no matter how good he sounds online, this is a very bad, very VERY bad, idea.
Think about it - you're talking about meeting up with someone based on nothing more than what he's typed into his computer. It's time to tell your parents about him and let them read what he's written. If he's a good guy, he'll welcome the chance to get to know your parents, too, and prove how much he cares for you by proving to other people who care about you that he can be trusted.
Anything else is suicidal.
2007-03-08 13:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you are a minor? If he doesn't , then you should tell him! If after you tell him your true age, he still wants to meet you, tell another adult! You read in the paper and see on the news all the time about what happens when young girls meet older men online and meet in person! Not one of those stories ever has a happy ending. Stay away from him at all cost! You should put his screen name on your ignore list and stop talking to older men over the internet. No matter how much you say you like him, its just not right, and deep down in your gut, you know this also! Thats why you posted this question. It was your own little personal cry for help! Please don't go anywhere near this man, nothing good can from the two of you meeting in person!
2007-03-08 21:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by sandramunroe11550 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away. I'm sure you have seen the news and what has happened to minors (even mature minors) that have met strangers from online. Rape, murder, kidnapping and even torture.
A guy online can be anyone or anything. Don't risk your life on the unknown.
I would give this same advice to any woman, whether she is 15 or 30.
2007-03-08 21:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know ur a minor?
how old is he and how old are u?
i don't think u should meet up. but if u decide to. meet up with a couple of ur friends in a crowded place like a mall or something don't be by urself. there are alot of whackos out there.
2007-03-08 21:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to do..don't depend on strangers from yahoo to tell you how to make important decisions that could affect your health and well being......just think of what this will do to your parents, remember that little girls who go to meet guys in person that they've talked to online don't usually come back home because bad things happened to them, this guy could be a murderer and also that he could go to jail just for meeting with you...and when you sends you that first letter from prison, I hope you remember that you helped put him there
2007-03-08 21:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a minor and the guy I hooked up with isn't. Do whatever you think is right.
2007-03-08 21:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him that you are a minor and that you can only meet him in a public place,,,and only if a adult can accompany you,,,then ask an adult to go with you,,,if he likes you,,,he will understand and agree,,,
2007-03-08 21:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really know him. at all. he could tell you anything he wants to get you to like him, and meet him. if you must meet him, take a couple of your friends along, get there a lot earlier than planned, and don't leave with him. and i agree with answer # 1 if you really do like him, don't do anything to get him in trouble. if he really likes you he will wait until you are of age.
2007-03-08 21:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are of age. If you are a minor then he could go to jail if he connects with you. If you like him then you don't want him to go to jail.
2007-03-08 21:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it!!!i dont mean to sound cliche but it is way dangerous.my aunts friend had met someone online and she came up missing ,they found her body almost a year later.it isnt worth your life!!!
2007-03-08 21:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by mitisyonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋