OK so i am 13 and i realy like this girl. She is already going out w/ someone, but it is like they are not going out. They dont usually talk that much. OK so i write her messages like every day! and she write back each time. Does she like me? I sit accross from her on the bus and she plays hand games w/ me in the isle. and she talks to me alot. and not w/ her bf in the front of the bus. only sometimes. So does she like me or not?
2007-03-08 13:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by storm Harding 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh to be young again. I think she sees you as a friend which is good & doesnt hurt but even if she isnt happy or in a relationship that isnt working the best or isnt very public... she still is in a relationship & you as a person & a guy need to respect that. If she breaks up with the guy or gets bored & leaves then you can try again but right now you need to just keep it friends. Again I think she likes you but not at the level right now you want & while I can't say she wouldnt change or be better off with you the fact is that right now she's taken & you both need to respect that. You can still talk & show her that you want to be friends even try to hangout but again keep it focused on friends for now... Life will only get more complicated as you get older so best to learn young. It's never like the movies & never cut & dry what a guy is thinking or what a woman wants. They will always confuse & frustrate the other its just how it is. By keeping it fun & "balance" you can hopefully have more good times then rough patches especially when it comes girls you really like. Because at some point you will run into a woman you really like that has been really hurt & keeping it relaxed will help you both work into a mutual & enjoyable relationship. :)
2007-03-08 13:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if she likes u like dat, but i know she likes u way more than she likes her boyfriend. i mean if u r doing more stuff with her/for than her boyfriend, if u ask her out, she aint going to say no cause she will knoe u can make her feel better than her boyfriend (no homo). but just ask her out. u cant just keep sitting there hoping yall will get together one day if u never ask her. u could be missing the chance of ur lifetime! just ask her, wats the worst that can happen! LIVE LIFE!
2007-03-08 21:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask her? the only way to find out is by opening your mouth....you wont get anywhere in life by not taking chances.....next time you talk to her, ask her what she thinks of you.... she may like you and not want to be with her bf....
2007-03-08 21:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...she likes you little guy. im almost 19 now and it seems as if i was 13 just yesterday. litlle girls play little games. ...just play along.you're far too young too look towards anything too seriuos now anyways, trust me.
2007-03-08 22:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by jh_spitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋