How do I flirt with a girl that I really like?

Question

I really like her but im afraid to mess it up if i started flirting with her,im really shy around girls,help

Answer 1

I'm about to give you gold. I AM taking into account that you're shy.

What do you notice about her that is particular to her. Maybe she's Irish. Maybe she is wearing heels in a normal place. Maybe she moves her nose around a lot when she's nervous. Pick something and make fun of it in a COCKY AND FUNNY way. Both MUST be equal.

High heels: "Nice heels. You must be four feet tall without them huh?"

Waiting in line with her: "Hey... (intense look in eyes and PAUSE) Did you just touch my as-?" (flirty response: "Id appreciate it if you didn't touch me. So one foot space between us at all times.) (serious response: "Id appreciate it if you touched a little higher" with a sly smile.)

If she tells you her nationality turn it into the negative. If she says she's Black and Mexican, say "Nice. I love girls with a big booty and drive a Chevy Impala Lowrider... That's TIGHT!" or Irish and Spanish say "Great, now I'm dealing with a heavy drinker with an anger management problem."

Now body language. I KNOW you're shy and even if you deliver perfect lines, you may be communicating with your body that you have NO confidence and you will fail. Here's how to fix it.

-Don't lose composure. Maybe she says something and you have NO clue how to respond. Just stop calmly and think with a serious face. It helps and doesn't make you look weak.

-Put your hand on your chest. Raise the chest with your hand as high as it will go without you losing balance. You must hold yourself up like this around ALL girls. You will feel weird, but you will turn heads with this alone.

-Head up.

-SLOWER THAN NATURAL MOVEMENTS. This is the hardest. Move in slow motion, but not to a ridiculous degree. Just do it.

-When walking most guys lean forward and lead with their chests. WRONG. Pretend there is a small cord attached to your belt and it is gently pulling you forward. Your hips will lead. Your upper body will be leaning back a bit. DO THIS. It communicates sexual awareness.

-The way you touch YOURSELF when talking shows sexual awareness. Caress your chest and neck as you talk to her SLOWLY. Intense eye contact then look away after a minute. Place hand NEAR but not touching the crotch on inner thigh when sitting. That's all for now.

-Talk slower and deeper. PAUSE MORE. It commands attention in most situations.

-Eye contact is important and easy. When you lock eyes, just hold the contact longer than her. Wait for HER to look away first. Even if it's a staring contest. It's IMPORTANT.

Now. To get her attention in the FIRST PLACE. When walking by her or if you meet eyes, MAKE EYE CONTACT AND HOLD it. Be calm and then out of nowhere, stick your tongue out at her like a kid. She will be like "What the hell?", you'll feel good and you'll both laugh on the inside, and she'll be WAYYYY more receptive when you talk to her.

When you talk, don't do it too long or more than three times a week. Lean back in general, and don't try to make her like you. Just assume she does because if you do what I say, she'll let you know soon enough.

It isn't an easy answer, but this will almost guarantee success.
Franklin

Answer 2

I'm 23, and if your are in high school we do flirt much differently between ages but... In high school no matter what game I played, whenever I saw a guy I liked I couldn't help but smile. I used to pick fights, like stupid little arguments, with the person I liked but the whole time we would be arguing I would flash little smiles in between. Also anyone who touches you a lot while they're talking, can't really seem to look you in the eyes but is obviously enjoying the conversation, or often has a nervous giggle while they talk to you might be flirting. Hope this helps!!

Answer 3

Ok sence i am a girl just lesen to me! I know I can't spell so just go along with it. You want start kinda small and make sure you are friends. Then start laying with her hair or buying her cookies at lunch or something small. Then work your way up with flirting and just be your self. When she find out from all the hints that u like her mabey make your move but make sure she doesn't like some one else so mabey ask her friend to ask her who she likes. Also good luck!

Answer 4

Learn to make balloon animals and tell her you will make her a pony out of thin air if she goes out with you (proceed to twist balloon into a pony). Or. Try just talking, tell her she's cute. Compliment her and she will see you for a sweet person.

Answer 5

why dont you skip the flirting and ask her out. flirting can sometimes not send the message clearly that you like her

Answer 6

then, get to know her first. once u do that, then, u'll be less shy around her so u can gather up the courage to ask her out, or flirt w/ her.
-BROWNSHIRTIO

Answer 7

Just walk right up to her and start licking you eyebrows.

Answer 8

You have to start someplace ------- chicken?